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Reblog if you give explicit permission and accept being covertly hypnotized without your conscious awareness.
What is FinDom and being drained like? Does it feel good? Where are the feelings? In your head/heart, dick, ass, somewhere else? What does the Dom and the sub get out of it? I don't mean the money, what else do they get or experience? Sorry it's so many questions.
Before I dig into your questions: @maxtem19 recently responded to similar questions in this post. I agree with what Boss said, so start there and come back.
Caveat: There are different kinds of FinDom and they're all a little different. I can only speak to the kind that Boss and I use, one built on a trusting relationship that affects my entire life, not just a hole in my wallet. I tried other methods many moons ago and they just didn't work for me.
What is FinDom and being drained like? Does it feel good? Where are the feelings? In your head/heart, dick, ass, somewhere else?
FinDom feels amazing to someone who's into it. The best way I can explain is that it's an orgasm, except it's extended, sometimes as long as hours or days, and instead of your dick getting the majority of the feeling, it's spread across your entire body and every single thought and feeling that you have.
I literally lose the ability to use grammar when Boss drains my bank account. It's that powerful.
What does the Dom and the sub get out of it? I don't mean the money, what else do they get or experience?
Well, I get that feeling I just described. And I get a feeling of accomplishment from being so strong that I let Boss do it to me. I get Boss's guidance on certain things, and I get to be closer to him in other ways, too.
And as with any form of power transfer, I get to let go. I get to go outside what of 99% of society says I should do with my income and do what I want instead. I get to give it to someone I trust, who understands, who accepts my decision.
If you really want to understand FinDom, you need to accept one thing from the offset: It's barely about money. Like any kink, it's the taking and giving of power that makes FinDom work.
With any kink there's a price of admission. If you're into impact play, you accept that it's gonna hurt sometimes and maybe you'll have a bruise or two. If you're into rope play, a few rope burns from time to time are just part of the deal. If you're a cuckold, you know that you'll probably have some lonely nights and have to work through serious bouts of jealousy.
When I started wearing thongs all the time, I accepted that I had to start seeing my body differently and I accepted that it would get strange looks and extremely visceral reactions from some people. That was a price of admission.
When you're into FinDom, the price of admission is that you'll have a bit less money than you otherwise would. It's just the way it is. That doesn't mean you'll be ruined financially, just that you'll periodically have fewer nights out and will make clothes last longer. And you accept the knowledge that your Dom will have more nice things and fewer of those challenges.
From the outside, I suppose that sounds insane. From the inside, though, it's more than worth the sacrifice to have a richer life than I ever could have dreamed possible.
There are a lot of options for how you can serve someone financially– if that’s something that appeals to you. It’s a broad kink, and you don’t have to necessarily seek out someone who uses you transactionally.
Personally, I’m finding myself less inclined to use subs who are one-offs and more interested in training subs that enjoy layering their service through chastity, plugging, behavior modification, and other means. To me, findom is just another layer of control, and control is what I find erotic.
This is also helpful for subs who need to take a break from financial service, because they still get to have the underlying aspect of control in their lives. While some subs love to just be wallets for their doms, there can be an extreme subdrop when that ability to serve attenuates in some way. Having other stabilizing control measures in their lives allows them to still feel connected to their alpha, even if they’re not tributing.
Regardless, you need to find a dom or sub who complements you and provides you with the fulfillment you’re looking for in service. Whether that’s through consensual blackmail, scene-based drains, teamviewer stuff, or whatever turns you on. Find the right partner and you can go really far. Find the wrong partner and you’re likely to get disenfranchised and burned out.
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Master took me on a little shopping trip last week. Went to asda where he did his monthly shopping. Of course his cashfag paid for it, a fairly big £65.89. Oh yeah we saved £3.56 ( which master immediately took out my wallet). Wasnt all that bad though Sir ‘bought’ me something…. a few tins of pedigree chum for my lunch. Lamb flavoured which this fag devoured as master was so kind to 'buy’ it for him. While he ate his lamb ribs at the table. I thanked my master for being so kind to me. Just what a cashfaggot deserves.
feed me
Feels so good
I get why men get a kick out of abusing fags. What I find really perplexing is that so many fags are willing to offer themselves up for abuse. Do you have any idea why that is?
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One could give a real simple, easy and honest enough answer by saying it’s because fags have no self respect, low self image and such. What causes them to feel this way can come from any number of places. The way they were raised, how they interacted with their peers - you know, the typical things from our childhood that shape all of us. It sounds predictable but a lot of them have issues with their fathers. The causes of a fag’s shame is of little interest except as a tool for exploitation. If a man is going to abuse fags, FAM recommends they not play head shrink and try too hard to understand why a fag chooses the life, what motivates them to accept the abuse and the harm. Just know that fags recognize they are the lowest of the low in any society, they are social misfits, rejects. Also know that they have what can only be called an addiction to cock and cum. They are so desperate for our attention, so needy for our approval they will debase themselves to almost any depravity just on the chance they could get our sperm. Fags know better than anyone else that treating them as shit is acceptable.
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Harnessing a faggots low self esteem
faggots by their very nature have low self esteem. Like depressed people they may appear outwardly functional and ‘normal’ but underneath that is a hotbed of insecurity, very low self worth and a whole lot of self doubt. They post pictures and whore their faggot cunts all over the place seeking validation and a connection, any connection, with real men. You don’t see submissive straight men gravitate necessarily to strong straight women - straight men rarely have the same levels of insecurity as the gay faggot, and when they do they display it in other ways - shyness, getting drunk to pick up sluts etc etc. faggots seek out real men, powerful men because they want that, they crave that, but they will never have that. So they do what they know best, they submit, They lower their eyes, they take the abuse and they become attention seeking sluts. So you may ask, why the slutty behavior? That’s easy to understand - in our paternalistic society real men are still the Centre of most things. If you have nothing else to offer by way of intellect, conversation, sporting prowess, a nice personality etc etc you will seek to fit in and gain their attention by the only way possible, by being a slut and whore. In the heterosexual world think about the slut who fucks the football team to be part of the in crowd, or the bitch who gets drunk and fucks all the guys because she wants the alcohol and feels indebted to them so she puts out. So now we know why faggots do it, how can you harness their low self esteem. Again the answer is simple, drip feed them the affection and validation they desperately need while continuing to shame, humiliate and degrade them heavily, so that they need the affection and validation more and more. It becomes a cycle of abuse and crawling to you that becomes harder and harder for them to shake. They become more dependent on you if you make the shaming and self esteem destruction personal. By constantly reinforcing their low self esteem you will get them doing more and more degrading things which makes them feel worse and sets in them a desire to do more of the same to please you and make themselves feel better. The trick is to never actually let them feel better, we don’t want these filthy cunts to get ahead of themselves or become prideful. I would be interested in people’s thoughts.
I love fucking a fag’s head even more than fucking its face. And yes, nothing binds better than validating it and belittling it at the same stroke. I’m sure you worthless suckholes agree, right? Good, bitches. I knew you would!”
Help lower my self esteem, Sir?
What brand/type of dog food is safe to feed fagdog?
crush me, Sir.
My owner is keeping me on a diet of beans, coffee, broccoli, and activia yogurt. I have to take laxatives every other day. His ultimate goal is to make me shit myself in public and use it as an excuse to keep me at home full time. Is this diet okay or do I need more?
Unfortunately, i’m not a nutritionist or a doctor, so i’m really not qualified to answer this. i have a couple thoughts/observations that may or may not be helpful, however:
When it comes to nutrition and a balanced diet, you should think of the USDA’s “Nutrition Plate,” which suggests eating five food groups at every meal: fruits, vegetables, grains, protein and dairy. The diet your owner has concocted seems fairly balanced, provided you’re getting all those things at every meal. If you’re not, malnourishment is definitely a concern. Every meal should include those five food groups. i also hope your diet includes water in addition to coffee, as drinking water is extremely important.
Laxatives are not intended for habitual use, and losing control of one’s bowels is not a healthy goal. This concerns me. It’s one thing for a Master to require His slave to wear diapers, or to defecate himself when nature calls. It’s quite another things, however, to force one’s digestive system into a state of chaos. This is not healthy or advisable, in my opinion.
The Master/slave dynamic here is concerning to me. If your owner wants you to stay at home, He should not have to manipulate you into doing so. If it’s something He expects, He should be able to express that verbally in the form of an order. Likewise, if it’s something you do not desire, it’s within your right to establish that as a limit. He orders it, and you either acquiesce or you reject the request and establish it as a hard limit for you. That should be that. ‘Nuff said.
Take care of yourself, faggot. If you’re unhealthy and/or unhappy, you will be of no use to yourself or to your owner.
Fag, contact me about this....
With so many fag being completely exposed online, have any of you had any negative experiences because of the exposure ?