Head Start doesn’t just teach kids, it teaches parents how to be teachers to their kids
My son and I began attending Community Action Head Start five years ago in the Family Partners Program. Admittedly, I was very hesitant about this class. My personal life situation was demanding that I find a full-time child care provider, so I could work and provide basic needs for my son and I, who desperately needed to get out of a domestic violence situation. I had no family around us, few friends, no life direction and zero confidence. I had never heard of Head Start. This particular program had me coming to school with my son and being part of a “family classroom”, and it was wonderful. It was fully worth the cross town max/bike ride with my son in the front basket on my bike.
I still remember the trepidation I felt before coming, and how kind the teacher was when she first called saying, “Just try it out and see if this is a good match for you. You can always drop if you are not comfortable.” Well, it turned out to be a perfect match for my son and me, for that year and many more years to come.
Before starting Head Start, we were inches away from homelessness and financial ruin. Since living with my abuser was not an option, I was paying my rent with credit cards, and paying credit cards with other credit cards, staving off utility companies and maniacally clipped coupons to make the little food stamps we received stretch.
I did everything short of stealing to get free bus tickets to get around town, since having a car was a pipe dream. A computer, cell phone, TV, were also ridiculously unattainable at that point. We had less than the bare minimum. I did what I could with what I had and used what I knew. It was a very difficult time.
Through Head Start, I was able to obtain information, resources, a sense of self and direction, and of course, an invaluable head start in school for my son.Â
Through the help of Community Action, I was actually able to stabilize. I will be eternally grateful. The sheer relief of not getting evicted was only the beginning. Community Action helped me not only get rental assistance, but energy assistance as well. No more heart thumping shut-off notices in my mailbox! Oh the joy of being able to turn on a light or cook a meal without freaking out.
Can I say thank you enough? I really can’t. But thank you all the same. With our basic needs met, I was able to focus on the very important task of taking care of my son, and myself :)
When my son started in the full-day preschool program, I was able to start working, and thus began the process of emerging from that giant hole of desperation and stress.
In school, my son received every kind of screening you can think of to catch any problems early. The Family Services Teacher guided me to take parenting classes and parent-child interactive therapies to help with behavior and anxiety issues my son was having. I utilized all the information that was given to me for the sake of my son. I also utilized parent training funds from the program to get my education. I did not realize it at the time, but as I was helping my son, I was also helping myself, all thanks to Head Start. Through this wonderful program, I found my direction in life. I was introduced into a world of helping others to help oneself. The Head Start family services gave me a hand up, not hand-outs.
Head Start doesn’t just teach kids, it teaches parents how to be teachers to their kids. Today I stand here, as not only a proud former Head Start parent, but as a proud Head Start Family Services Teacher.
I work full-time with the families and children I love as my very own. I cannot begin to express how lucky I feel to be in a place to give back the love and care that was given to me, and receiving it again ten-fold from all the children in my classroom.
I absolutely love giving back to a program where I feel a strong familial bond, and am whole-heartedly thankful that I am now fully self-sufficient and happy. Thanks to Head Start, we have been able to head forward. Again, the thanks cannot be measured, but thank you again and always.
Unfortunately, my story is not unique. I’ve seen and felt it firsthand from the families I work so closely with. I feel it is completely unjust that families with preschool aged children are punished with poverty and stress. It terrifies and saddens me to witness and know what families go through just to survive. All during the most important and influential years of a human’s life: Birth to age five. Head Start provides an option, help and hope.
My son graduated from the program at 5 years old, but the benefits of his three years in the program will last him a lifetime. At seven years old, he is now a beaming, well-adjusted second grader at Templeton Elementary, where I currently work in the Head Start classroom.
He has overcome his emotional problems and still absolutely loves school. If you do the math, you’ll realize that he is actually supposed to be in first grade. Because he developed such a love of reading and math during the time spent in Head Start, he was essentially “kicked out” of kindergarten and placed in the first grade. Currently, his academic capacity is at end of third grade.
Did he get a head start? What do you think?