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asian sb in nyc

[sugar-popping]

any new york babies run into this guy? i think he’s scammed my sugar baby friend and is in the process of scamming me too... heads up for a potential blacklist i guess. his name is ken.

[sugar-popping]

august 1st, 2015

sorry for the lack of updates! been a little disillusioned lately but i’ve been in nyc for a couple of weeks and i’m enjoying guys taking me to high tea and fancy restaurants. about to go out for sushi and then a broadway show, i’ll let u know how it goes!!!

also this guy on the street asked if i was a model... lmao nah just on my way to a sugar date

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march 10th, 2015

this is what i like to hear! this guy is pretty cute and seems laid-back too. i'm super excited to meet up with him once he gets back!!!

got my hair cut and styled at this high-end salon today. the lady who did my hair was so nice and professional, and i took a leap of faith cutting my long hair (like butt length!!!) to this super cute pageboy/bob. and it came out so well!!! i love it and i can't stop checking myself out in mirrors. think lee hyeri, only black (for now!) i've made a full day appointment to get it bleached and toned next monday, to silver.

sugar bowl wise, i met up with the sweet guy i was talking about yesterday, and he's good-looking in person and surprisingly young? a little uncomfortable with sd/sb discussion and he seems like a newbie, but i had a good time and he gave me $200 at the end :> we're discussing an arrangement now!! i've got some other promising pots around, so we'll see how that goes.

also omg i have spent so. much. money. at sephora. someone stop me. like... $500 the last 2 days, no joke. the ladies there all know me by name at this point... god i really need to stop. i'm looking like fire tho!!

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march 9th, 2015

sorry for the lack of updates! i've been busy with my art + schoolwork lately, but i've been on a couple of pot dates. i've made enough off of pot dates to treat myself to sephora shopping spree (got the perfume sampler and abh's contour kit and some ysl things ✨✨) the pot i met up with today was complete salt. said he was okay with 5k and could think about 8k a month, but started discussing sex from the get go (tried to ask about anal lfmsmsk). so off-putting!! it was apparently his first time too, and he was super paranoid. i cut it off when he wouldn't give me any gifts for my time at all.. zzz .. though i might reach out to him again if i get desperate. at least i got some posh dinner. i've got a salon appointment to get my hair bleached and toned tomorrow, and another pot date right before. he's super sweet, a complete exception from most of the guys i've been encountering on sa/am, and i'm actually really looking forward to it. he says he's going to bring a small gift to compensate for my time so 🙌 thank god for pots who know what they're doing. i've got some other pot dates lined up for this week. i'll keep yall updated 😊

[saccharinebabe]

Hi there! I've been sugaring for 2 months now, I get 4k each month. I was curious what you and other sbs do with your cash? right now, I can still hide it but I'm wondering down the line.. what I should do? Like do you try and pay for most things with cash? if so, what do you choose to pay in cash and what in credit cards? and how come? Also, if you put it in a bank what about the 2k limit? do you deposit in multiple banks? sorry for all the questions. Thank you! I'll be asking a bunch of sbs :D

It’s cool, these are totally valid questions. I deposit less than $2k each month into my checking, not savings account. My savings account is interest bearing, which gets reported, but my checking is not. I break that up into smaller deposits and I do it as the ATM, not the counter. The rest of my savings go into a safe deposit box at the bank.

I pay for pretty much everything in cash. If I want to buy something online, I’ll go and buy an amex gift card at the grocery store. I don’t have a credit card, I have a debit card that is hooked up to my checking account but I try to use it as little as possible.

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february 27th, 2015

i’ve been messaging a new pot on sa, setting up a dinner date. he picked a pretty upscale restaurant, so things are looking good (he’s pretty attractive & young, but i guess i’ll know for sure in person). he also asked me how much i wanted monetarily, just for the first meeting!!! i turned him down ofc, playing demure, saying i don’t want an overtly “transactional” relationship, but he seems insistent on it. well…. if you really want to!!

i’m pretty much booked for the week with pot dates (learned from my mistakes with the first couple of pots). also made a quick $300 on wyp, just for a 30 minute coffee date, so i can stock up on art supplies. things are going pretty good right now :>

[saccharinebabe]

Shit To Pay Attention To On Dates.

These are small things that, in my opinion, distinguish the sugar from the salt.

Location: Where are you meeting? Is it nice? Does it feel like a place a wealthy and mature man would frequent? Is it perhaps well known or famous?

When you get there: It should go without saying that he should pay for everything. But watch his reactions as you order. Is he cringing when you order something expensive? Is he encouraging you to get whatever you want? Is he rushing the meal or is he taking his time, making sure you’re enjoying the meal?

Form of payment: Try to slyly check out what kind of credit card he’s paying with. Not foolproof, but seeing a well regarded card, like a platinum amex, is a good sign.

How he looks: Think beyond “handsome” because he probably won’t be. What I mean, is does he look hygienic? Do his clothes look good?

Discussion: In my experience, salty dudes shy away from discussing allowances and arrangements. Genuine sugar daddies, however, are quite comfortable discussing terms, and letting you know what they want out of an arrangement.

After the date: I don’t think a cash gift is always necessary after a date, especially when you’ve agreed on a multi-thousand dollar allowance, which you expect on the next date. But he should compensate you for any travel expenses. 

[sugar-popping]

lmao good luck finding someone bitch!!

[sweetsugar92]

"I wouldn’t expect my allowance until we had an agreement obviously, but I’m simply asking for a generous token to show that you are a legitimate SD. I’ve been unfortunate to have ended up in negative situations before and so you can understand why I would insist on something at the time of our meeting to ensure your legitimacy." 

- Me (How to get a present/money from a POT)