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@sugarbabyindevelopment
7 Steps to Creating Your Higher Self Persona.
Whether you want to create a sugar baby persona, a more confident version of yourself, or are just bored and want to revamp your life, these are the essential steps to doing so. I would recommend being as detailed as I was in my “ideal high-value man” list.
Stop being so trusting of your POT’s
Something new sugar babies really need to understand is that these guys are looking for a girl online who’s otherwise a stranger for a reason.
It terrifies me reading just how many newbies go into the bowl thinking that a super generous and warm-hearted rich man is going to throw thousands of dollars at them just for acting sweet and looking pretty.
I’m not saying they’re all bad, but a good many of them are not what they chalk themselves up to be.
Most of these men have massive flaws, often times mentally and sometimes physically ( or other times both). They’re trying to meet somebody online who doesn’t know them yet for a reason.
You have to be prepared to cut your losses with POT’s/SD’s at any given moment, you must be on guard at all times because the reality is that when you decide to meet a POT for the first time (or even first several times) you don’t know him, you don’t know if he’s lying to you, you don’t know what he has planned for you.
No, they don’t always have your best interest in mind.
There are a lot of men out there on these sites who are complete frauds who will tell you anything you want to hear to try to get inside you. They will tell you a fake name, they will give you fake pictures, a fake company name, they’ll even write you a fake check with the fake name on it and then try to lure you into bed with them. If you really don’t believe me, check out the latest comments on the SA blog posts and you’ll see that a popular SD on the site uses fake photos and brags about how he’s fooled every girl so far. I’m not making this up.
I’ve read some of the most traumatizing stories I’ve ever heard coming from sugar babies.
Don’t ever ignore your intuition.
Sugaring is not all money being thrown at you just because you have a pretty smile.
Is there anyone still active here? I dropped this account a long time ago but would like to get back on my tracks :)
How to Feign Your Life is Together
Have a signature accessory, clothing article, make up look, or hair style.
Have a fragrance. Make your hair scents and lotions match your perfume.
It’s okay to dine alone. Bring a book or people watch.
Love your hair. Research the best brands for your hair type and use masks weekly.
Your nails don’t need to be fancy, but keep them maintained.
Stay worldly. Know works of art, artists, designers, films, books, politicians. Spend your lunch break reading the paper or a magazine.
Crying is not a weapon. It’s okay to feel your emotions, but never use them as an excuse to avoid your problems.
Jealousy is boring. Love and appreciate others. If you can’t love them, forget them.
Boost others. Flatter others, but don’t deprecate yourself in the process.
Don’t sulk. Don’t let the whole world know your problems. If you don’t want someone to give their opinion, don’t share your situation.
Your life is between you and the universe. Don’t post your personal matters for others to see.
Don’t emotionally blackmail others. They hurt you? Let them know and then move on. It’s between the two of you and not the world.
Cook dinner. Cook dinner and listen to music, the radio, or a podcast.
Treat yourself to candles and flowers. Be your own cheerleader.
Take naps. Take a cat nap on a Sunday afternoon with the blinds open and the fan on high.
Drink your water, eat your vegetables. Take care of your body.
Never have time to take off your jewelry before bed, but always have time to take off your makeup. Your nighttime skin regime is important.
Mystery is beautiful. You don’t need to reveal much of or about yourself.
Never appear other than as you are. Don’t lie about yourself. Embrace who you are at your core.
Just deleted my SA account and I recommend you guys do as well…Seems the Feds are getting involved..
Important! Stay safe ladies
Body wants sex.. Heart wants love.. Soul NEEDS peace .
pockets need money
MEN. ARE. NOT. SHOPPING. FOR. YOU.
This means, this isn’t a job interview. They are not asking the questions and you answer. You are both searching. They talk sex, you talk money. they make sexual jokes, you talk money. They ask for sexual photos, you talk money.
Don’t be ashamed or embarrassed to ask for what you want. No lowballing yourself because you need the money. That’s how you cheapen yourself. No settling!
Yall don’t let these niggas guilt trip you into not wearing condoms
This.
All it takes is one time
I could NOT pass up the opportunity to reblog. Always remember this!!!
I can’t believe they oblitered straight men like that
@tabbran please add lemon man story to this
PRESENTING LEMON MAN
That was a wild goddamn ride
god this was worth the read
After so much fucking time I'm back again... apparently I can go on months without tumblr smh
Men Don’t Catfish
They “agefish”
Agefish- a man who uses their best pictures from their younger days to post it on dating sites to allude to women that’s how they look currently.
Two Examples:
What He Posts
How He Looks When You Meet Him
What He Posts
How He Looks When You Meet Him
Disclaimer: This is for women who date older men, and have dealt with this. During the dates, I think to myself “Did he post his college picture from the 1980′s and claimed it like it was in the 2000s. Then want to demand multiple photos.
Lmaoo accurate deff seen SA profiles like this
one guy i met used pictures from when he was 40 ish im guessing and when i met him he looked like a deteriorated verision of that like i barely recongized him😭😭
I always buy neutral colors (black, white, cream, tan, and all shades of brown and grey) that would suit my basics: simple tops, trousers, cardigans, etc. Make your outfit look 10x better with something as simple as adding a leather jacket or a nice cardigan, paired with some black or nude heels & simple jewelry. Try finding a pair of black or blue jeans that are comfortable and hug your body in the right way. And for date nights I suggest you get a little black dress and a nice pencil skirt with a button-up.
Everyone has three lives; a public life, a private life, and a secret life.
Alyssa. (via be-happy-and-enjoy-the-life)
Hoe Wisdom - Manipulation
I learned from a very young age to make people believe about me exactly what I want them to. I learned how to walk, sit, move, and even eat in a way that makes me seem in complete control of myself and my surroundings, even when I’m feeling completely overwhelmed and out of place. I learned to hide my anxieties and insecurities in a way that everyone thought I was always calm and put together. I also learned how to get people to trust me and tell me everything about them by masterfully displaying those very weaknesses. I’ll share some of my tips tonight, these tips might help you seem in complete control, help you get what you want and even who you want ;)
WHEN YOU’RE ALONE AMONGST A LOT OF PEOPLE - If you’re alone don’t stress about the fact that you are, don’t worry about looking like a loser because you won’t. > When you’re alone be sure to keep your posture. ALWAYS TAKE NOTE OF YOUR POSTURE. I cannot stress how important your posture is. Look up how to keep a proper posture. >Snack slowly and take small bites, small and assured sips of your drink. Not too slow, just measure yourself. > Learn how to strut. When you walk across the room to sit, to snack, or just anywhere, don’t slack on your walking. Chin up, stare straight ahead, perfect posture, and have a very slight smile. The world is your catwalk, and yes people will be paying attention when you least notice it.
WHEN SOMEONE APPROACHES YOU - If they’re a close friend you don’t have to worry much about how to talk to them because you know them, but your behavior still matter. > When talking to them make sure you pay close attention to them and what they’re saying. No extreme reactions, unless they truly said something shocking. > Smile a lot, let others see that you can be approachable. Also, they’re your close friend you should be smiling anyway. - If they’re someone you barely know then just breathe in, smile, release your breath slowly and greet them politely. > Ask then questions about their life you have some knowledge about. Ask about their family, pets, children, partners, work/school, make sure they’re the ones speaking more than you are. - If they’re a stranger wait until they’re immediately in your personal space to acknowledge them, then meet and greet them only after they have directly addressed you. Keep an easy smile on your face, and when meeting them change your smile according to the impression you want to make (dazzling smile to charm, smirk to seduce, smile politely for anyone else). > For strangers you don’t know anything about them, ask them about things you are at least somewhat curious about. Ask them about their current standing in terms of job and or studies. Ask them about family and hobbies. Anything you would like to know or need to know to get some info on them. > Make a lot of eye contact, but not too much, but make sure to keep your attention on them. Make them feel that you care about what they’re saying.
WHEN YOU’RE IN A GROUP Besides all the other things about posture, eye contact and smiling, when you’re in a group this is where the whole “pay them complete attention” does not apply. In a group make sure to pay attention to everyone speaking, let everyone have a turn at your attention. People who were steamrolled out of a conversation you ease them back in either by giving them your attention and let them speak to you directly, or if you’re feeling bold politely call out the person or people who steamrolled over them by calmly stating “I’m sorry to interrupt but [their name] was speaking, I want to know what they were going to say.” Don’t do that if you don’t feel confident, or if you care about possibly offending others, you should still operate within your comfort zone so that you can portray a genuine look of collected confidence.
NOW YOU’RE IN, HOW TO GET THEM TO TRUST YOU - This is when you can start showing people bits of your true self. You should have real stories and anecdotes ready for when you get the chance to use them. - Real stories and anecdotes are crucial because believe it or not people are actually adept at intuitively spotting liars. If the stories and anecdotes are real, with genuine feeling attached to them, they can’t spot any lies because they will be the truth. - Manipulating people is not about lying, it’s about using the truth to your advantage. Avoid lying and avoid exaggerating, so that everything you say and do is genuine. - The stories and anecdotes you use must have some connection to the context of the conversation or the person you’re with. Don’t bust out a story of a dying pet when the person you’re with never even had a pet. Don’t talk about how you once failed an exam when the conversation was about this concert he went to with his friends last week. Talk about things in context, and if you have no material for a certain context then don’t stress, you don’t need to have something to say for everything. For every time you talk to them only share one personal story, avoid using more because then that shows too much of you. - You want to show some humanity, but not too much because you want them to still believe that you’re some ethereal and strong entity that could probably crush them if they cross any lines.
To end, I just want to say that with this post I don’t mean to imply that you need to act this way to be desired, to get what you want, or to be considered amazing. This is not the case at all. However, I know for a fact that some of y'all struggle with confidence and that you wish you knew how to display confidence even when you don’t have it. Well this is a way to fake it until you make it. My blog is about loving yourself, but I know how long and tiresome that process can be. This is just a way to put yourself out there. There’s so much info I still didn’t cover because then the post would be even longer, for any more info just ask me! None of y'all should feel that you HAVE to do what this post says to get people to notice you and like you, I don’t want any of you to compromise yourselves for the sake of people that don’t matter. But I know some of you want this, I found myself looking up a lot of this information way back when before Tumblr had this huge and informed community of wonderful people willing to share their knowledge. I love all of you and I hope I’ve helped some of you in any way.
hey so I’m Somali and my friends 19 (also Somali) and she confided in me that she wants to be a sb, she first said she’d look for ones not wanting sugar uno so I told her not to delude herself and that most obviously want sex duh. She confessed than she wouldn’t mind and I’m her best friend, so I put my judgements aside and told her she’s going to have to figure how to do it safely. Any tips on her dealing with stigma if it comes out
There’s really nothing I can say on that topic because that will NEVER EVER happen to me as I’m EXTREMELY diligent hiding my identity/tracks in all my sugaring/escorting/arrangement affairs. For example, I don’t go to certain area’s with POT’s and SD’s in London. Most of my clients are white and South Asian and I keep it that way. I make sure every photo I put online (which ever platform)is flipped horizontally in case these men want to do a image reverse search. Everything I tell these men about myself is a fucking lie. My age, name, occupation, hometown, and ethnicity. I have two different mobiles for daily life and sugaring. All my social media is private and under different names. I carry mace and a switch blade in my bag at all time. I have a fake ID when I go out to bars and clubs with POT’s/SD’s. I make sure I hide my IP address when using sugar daddy websites. I got three different email accounts for payment methods. I screen every single man that shows interest, just in case, I got their wife, boss, and fucking driver’s info if they dare come for me. You name it. I got plan A, B, and C on lockdown if worse comes to worse.
I am always on top of my shit when it comes to privacy so I won’t ever have to deal with being exposed. So, I would tell your girl she needs to be on top of her shit too, if she really wants to be an SB. Do research, be safe, and get more tips on hiding identities. That’s how I learned everything I know: google.
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