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Get over the shame and the lack of confidence and the fear of failure and the imposter syndrome. Nobody cares. Some people are cruel and mean and love to watch others fail. So what? Do you really want to prove them right? Get the fuck up, we’re chasing our dreams like our lives depend on it because, in case you forgot, they do.
Archetypes of the B2B Community
Sade the Studious
Her education is her main priority…and her leverage.
She is pursuing her education passionately for the sake of networking with the right people. She doesn’t care to find“the one”. Her motive is to make the right connections or be introduced to people she can receive opportunities from.
Lésa the Luxurious
She is here strictly for financial freedom. That’s her main motive for marriage and she’s not shy about it.
She welcomes the masculines whose focus is vanity. She uses her beauty and seductive aura as leverage for securing a very high earning masculine who can provide the luxury lifestyle she requires.
Rene the Romantic
Little Miss “I Love Love”.
She’s not finding love. Instead, she is attracting love like a magnet.
She acknowledges her heartbreaks, childhood issues and other heartbreaking trauma she may have experienced. Owning her hurt allows for her to use it as leverage to show that she is self aware
Suzette the Survivor
She is not shy about surviving the harsh conditions of her home country or childhood. Suzette has used her feminine appearance and other qualities to snag her a high quality husband.
Wanda the Wounded
Sigh she’s not there yet. The girls that get it, get it and Wanda does not get it.
She is finding her footing in the world of self development, therefore we are patient with her and provide advice and inspiration. Unfortunately, we must leave her behind and await Wanda’s arrival when she catches up!
Which archetype are you?
Wanda, I am a wounded feminine
Suzette, I am dating / mating to escape and have stability
Rene, I am elevating from my heartbreak
Lésa, I am mating strictly for money
Sade, I am using my degree to secure a husband & connections
i need advice, my bf and i have been together for 3 years. im starting to realize we aren’t really meant to be, he has taught me a lot throughout our relationship and he’s sweet but we want two completely different things. he knew i was high maintenance and had high standards and he kept up with it but he’s starting to ask questions that just seems like he wants loopholes to not keep up with my standards but make me lower them which I WILL NOT DO.
he pays for everything and he drives me to school since i have no car and i need a ride to keep going to school. i feel like i’m with him to survive now until i’m able to get a car and be more independent.
any advice?
You and Ur Friends are High Maintenance w/ Low Income
urTOOspoiled Devil’s Advocate Series
MY ADVICE: Let that mango. You need to get your priorities together.
“He knew I was high maintenance and had high standards and he kept up with it but he’s starting to ask questions that just seems like he wants loopholes to not keep up with my standards but make me lower them which I WILL NOT DO,”
I don’t think you should lower your standards. I think you should meet your own standards BEFORE EXPECTING HIM TO particularly since you’re only with the man out of survival….what do I know though?
A Porsche is high maintenance. So is an infant with an ear infection….
HIGH MAINTENANCE MEANS NOTHING!!!
Focus on becoming HIGH QUALITY…which will solidify your HIGH VALUE…which automatically requires a HIGH amount of MAINTENANCE.
Here’s why I’m playing devils advocate: that man has CONTINUOUSLY kept up with these standards you’ve “TOLD” him about for THREE YEARS despite the fact you haven’t SHOWN him you can meet your own standards.
If you FEEL like you’re with him out of survival, is it fair to assume he probably FEELS like you’re a bit of a financial burden? Is he wrong?
He doesn’t want loopholes nor for you to lower these standards you speak of.
He wants a lover, not a leech- something you’ve BEEN for awhile it seems. He is asking you questions to see where your mind and intentions are at as far as becoming a stable adult.
That’s a smart man right there. I like him. He has a strategy and is (probably, I guess) plotting on breaking up with you as well. Learn how to develop your dating strategy HERE.
I’m sorry but there’s no excuse that you’re with a man who pays for “everything” yet you need him for a ride to “keep going to school,”. That’s not his responsibility. It’s yours. Prioritize it.
You had ample time to save for a car.
You had ample time to put money on your Uber account every week.
You could’ve put money in a savings account and accumulated a nice amount of interest.
You had enough time to become stable while taking advantage of the help a man is giving you. Set the example prior to spewing expectations. Men listen to actions and that you lack.
It’s fascinating reading, watching and overall observing women boast about having high standards yet if that man died today or tomorrow you’re stuck in distress….and eventually soon in another man’s arms who can provide for you. That’s dangerous.
No disrespect, but how “high maintenance” can you be if you lack the funds and ambition to take care of yourself? You get my point, so do better.
Closing Thoughts: Men love a damsel in distress, not a woman whose dependent on them. They will either take advantage of such irresponsibility or they will genuinely help you…to an extent. They’re also taking note to see if you’re a user or ignorantly lazy. If you’re not willing to help yourself they’re going to move on to a more STABLE partner.
Nobody wants to fund your expenses out of obligation. That’s how resentment surfaces. It’s not fair for neither you nor your partner to place such a burden onto them.
If you want to keep him, provide for yourself FIRST so he feels comfortable providing for you because he wants to, not because you need a handout.
To learn how to master dating the masculine, click HERE
Be a spoiled brat, not a spoiled bum.
Happy Healing 💕👛💅🏾🧿🕯
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[like orpheus, I am not strong enough to not look at what I want]
“What Daddy Never Told His Little Girl” - Tony A. Gaskins
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Your looks will grant you the attention that gets you in the door but it will not be enough to take you to the finish line. “But but but 2pretty! What about celebrity xyz!!” You’re not her.
Stop telling women to forgo education completely bc apparently rich men don’t like educated women (false)
If you go on dates with men and start asking them stupid money questions you memorized from sugar baby blogs, you’re cringe
If you think you’ve “finessed” a man by having him pay for your nails after you’ve spent several hours texting him, calling him, and accompanying him on dates, you’re dumb
Hot girls are a dime a dozen and if y’all are all using the same style tips, the same tiktok level up tips, the same “my car just broke down, can you send me $300 🥺” tips, the same ‘sit at the bar alone and rich men will flock’ tips, you won’t get very far
You may feel special knowing that you’re talking to 10 guys right now bc it makes you feel like you’re in high demand but honestly you’re just giving away your time and attention for free. Draining your social battery for free.
Stop putting your dating business out there on tiktok with your face all up in the camera before you end up on a MGTOW cringe compilation with a bunch of ugly men and pick-me supremes making fun of you in the comment section. Goof ball!
Kinda dumb to expect an amazing, put-together, HV man when you're still doing LV habits.
Start working on yourself, make yourself happy, glowup, THEN they come attracted to you, because you are what they want. They want someone that will vibe at the same frequency as they do, someone that values herself, that is a whole, complete han with passions, hobbies, and ideas. And above all, not someone that's gonna lick their boots and go all desperate over them.
Even if you don't have a man "yet", you already have yourself, an amazing person. It's still GREAT, even if there's no partner. You don't go desperate for a partner and you don't go pick whoever to fill the void inside you that you failed to fill. That's the whole idea behind my philosophy regarding hypergamy. It begins with the self, the ME.
My partner might very well die before I do, and if that happens, I'm not gonna be a shell of a human.
No matter how educated, talented, rich, or cool you believe you are, how you treat people ultimately tells all.
Not even kidding I’m so grateful for everything that I have rn but I’m really praying for more connections, more joy, more happiness, more love, more people, more energy, more life in the years to come and I know I will be receiving all of that + more
what's the wisest thing to invest on as a student? i wanna treat myself but i want to be prudent and look out for my future self
Invest in your self care! That’s literally the most important investment you can have during your academic years. If you imagine your future self being happy, wealthy, and well taken care of then you need to start now. Being prudent is just a scam they tell us so that we can work hard and be unhappy. Part of being a successful student is being happy and in a good mental/physical space so that you can focus on studying and getting good grades and subsequently be able to create wealth in the future. I’m not saying blow all your money, but worry less about “saving” or being “frugal” because you have to believe that your loans and all financial worries will be taken care of so you don’t actually have to worry. I probably spend $3-4k a month on self care treatments and my classmates are always so shocked because we’re supposed to be “broke/struggling med school student.” That may be their story but it’s not mine and I don’t want to claim that. Treat yourself and don’t feel guilty about it! You need your pampering and rest now, school is stressful af so don’t buy into that false struggle narrative. Here are some really great, relaxing self care rituals I recommend.
Monthly professional massages. This helped so much with my chronic piriformis/low back pain. I add the cupping and lymphatic drainage and feel like I’m in my teenage body again 😂
Nail salon twice a month. Mani/pedi unless it’s winter then maybe I’ll just do manicures
Cryotherapy a few times a month. This is something new I started this year. It’s soooo good for circulation and post workout soreness
Professional facials once a month. Get a skin consult and they will help assess and tailor your skincare routine
Eyelash extensions every 2-3 weeks. Another new treatment I started this year. It’s soooo much better than having to glue on fakes and actually look so natural and pretty. Makes me feel super feminine and I get compliments all the time
Brow threading and tinting every 2-3 weeks, brow lamination once every 2 months. My brows feel so soft and look so sexy afterwards
Laser hair removal. My 🐱 is so cute afterwards and it’s much quicker than waxing, lasts longer, and hurts a lot less. Plus better for your sensitive skin down there and lessens the impact of hyperpigmentation. Most places allow you to pay in monthly installments
Monthly or bi-monthly solo dinners. This has been my favorite self care implementation so far. It’s so empowering and relaxing going to an upscale restaurant to take yourself out to dinner. It’s such a great way to freestyle. I normally pick a different restaurant each time and most times I end up not having to pay for my dinner because I met someone. Even if you don’t meet someone the goal is to have fun with yourself and enjoy your own company. Meeting someone is just a bonus
what if……..some things get better in 2021……..it is a possibility.
My friends. Being cautiously optimistic does not ”jinx” anything. There is no force in the universe which punishes us for having hope. There is no god waiting for us to stand up in order to knock us back down. If things do not get better, make no mistake, the only beings who are consciously sabotaging us are those humans denying us financial aid and health care. They are only people, and they can be defeated.
I will continue to hope.
“There is no force in the universe which punishes us for having hope.”
You have to have audacity in life. You must develop the strength to live the life you want. You must believe you are worth your best efforts because you are.
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Solving Single: How to Get the Ring, Not the Run Around
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