Do you have any tips for being a spoiled gf or how to be one, and get as much money as you can
The spoiled gf route can get you a lot more over time. I think the most important thing is to remember that when it comes to dating, most older men that prefer a “spoiled gf” don’t want to be seen as a SD. They want the fantasy that you need to create for them. They don’t want the relationship to seem transactional but that doesn’t mean you shouldn’t ask for what you deserve.
Keep your femininity. If you’d like for him to pay for your upkeep, (and you should) pose yourself as a woman who likes to be kept. If he’s not into giving a formal monthly allowance, you can still pose it as such in a less harsh way. For example if he wants to take you out to dinner. You can tell him “I always love going out and being shown off on your arms. You know I like to keep myself looking my best. Can you send me $xxxx to prepare for our date? Lookin forward to it 😘” Try and make him excited about the date. Tease, talk about how you can’t wait to see him, etc.
It’s also important to “show don’t tell” when dealing with men that prefer a spoiled gf. You don’t need to state that you’re a kept woman. You need to hint at it in mysterious ways. “I love when a man makes things happen ☺️” something along those lines of stroking his ego when asking for something you want. He will see you’re a certain type of prized and high value woman by your actions. So look and dress the part when on dates. Keep the fantasy going and he will find you irresistible.
Since this isn’t an arrangement and there’s nothing agreed upon for what you will be receiving from him, you need to make sure that you are getting what you want once you have established a relationship with him. The key into the spoiled gf route is to make him think you’re very much interested and into him first and foremost and his money second.
During the first few dates, feel him out and take notice. Where did he suggest to take you? Order a bottle of wine. Did he cringe or suggest something cheaper? Did he complain about the bill after your date?
Do not have sex with him. You really want to hold off for as long as you can. You should definitely tease him with kisses, sexual talk, and even a little groping but only as a reward. After he’s spent some money on you, you need to acknowledge and reward him somehow so that he keeps doing it. In the beginning (3-4 dates) is when you vet and prime him. If he’s cheap move on to someone else.
Phone or video sex is a great way to ask and get what you want immediately. I would start off describing a dream I had about him. Then go into detail about what I was wearing. When you feel you’ve been seductive enough (just a few short minutes usually does the trick) to get him started, break the fantasy. Say that you can’t get into it right now because now you’re thinking about how you don’t own that dress. You’d really like to own it and you saw something like it online. If he doesn’t ask how much, just keep saying how it would hug your curves and you’d love something new to wear for him for the next date. When he asks how much, tell him with confidence. I usually don’t say an amount less than $1k but you can say whatever makes sense in your world. If he complains about the price or acts astonished, don’t be rattled. You need to keep confident. Play dumb and say “I don’t understand, is that a lot for you?” He won’t want to look cheap and will fix his tone immediately if he’s worth your time. If he doesn’t or keeps complaining, make an excuse to get off the phone and end the call. If he agrees to sending the money, then great. You can resume phone/video sex if you’d like. If you don’t want to then you can steer the convo in another direction but do make sure to stroke his ego a few times before getting off the phone. This has always always worked for me. It’s important to note not to try this until a relationship has been established already. At least after 2-3 dates. Don’t be afraid to ask. Closed mouths don’t get fed!
These are a few pointers I have found to be successful when going the spoiled gf route. If you’d like a more in depth and detailed step by step breakdown, subscribe to my website! 😉
Good luck, with love 💕
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