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I feel stuck :/ The city in which I live is bone dry. Here, the cost of living is quite low and most of the population is poor. I'm a university student and don't have the means to travel to the wealthier cities. I know Tinder plus is a way of accessing richer men, but I'm afraid they wouldn't consider me for a potential relationship because I'm not a local. I'm not sure what I should do.

You need tinder plus babes, I live in NY and dudes were flying me out to Houston I wasn’t even finding guys in my own city sometimes and I live in NY! 🗣 google wealthy zip codes and set your tinder plus. Tell them you were visiting they’re city, or you had a lay over or you’re about to visit there city and act stupid like “omg I didn’t know I was swiping in another state !”

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So basically when your on tinder you don’t mention anything about being spoiled or taken care of? You just simply talk to them, get to know them, then slowly start to ask them how you need help with whatever? And if they decline then you move on?

You got it babes! I ease into just mentioning a problem that I have, but make it big e.x: a hospital bill, my favorite is Tuition (even if you don’t have one) if they don’t try to help in some way I’m out!

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Tinder question

Hey doll it seems like you have the whole tinder thing down to a T. How do I change the zip code for the location? I have an iPhone

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Hi girl I’m admiring your blog and just felt the urge to tell you how much I admire you as a person. I’m looking into sugaring after my BA and so many of these blogs project an image that doesn’t sit well with me but your way of finessing is something I truly click with. I know you don’t sugar anymore as a personal preference but I see you and I am proud, which is a meaningless sentiment from a stranger but I truly hope you do wonderful things and live your most authentic life #blackgirlsrock

Thank you love , no I really appreciate it. This makes me keep posting. #blackgirlsrock

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Hey sis. I have a Tinder related question. I have Tinder Plus and I have my current settings so that only guys I swipe right can see me, because I don’t want men my age to see my account (since I’m using it for sugar dating). I’ve had a few good matches, but I think my settings screw with the algorithm. Usually, I would have way more matches by now. I was thinking of not using a full face photo and leaving my settings open... any suggestions?

I don’t do this, you cutting out blessings girl , you should set your account to age 36 and up. If there’s a guy your age swipe no, I’m sure they won’t remember you cause I forget who I swipe yes too until we match.

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How dis you meet you SD 😍😍😍 I just moved out here to NYC

I don’t have an SD , I have a husband. But I’ve met my 5k SD on Seeking Arrangements… Mostly met all my guys on Tinder including my husband 😉

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Ok can’t let “Range Rover” go, he’s paying for my nursing online program and building me a new closet !!! Get you a nigga that’s asking you to pay for shit. It be the low key niggas that’s willing to take care the 150k - 300k ... sometimes dudes who make more then that aren’t that generous because they have everyone at their beck and call and things are way to easy for them. 06-27-18 🤑😬🤗🤩

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Hi babies Remember “Range Rover” well he owns a company here in NY the company makes millions but only comes home with about $140,000 per year I found out! Sheesh that’s low, poor thing would try to come out of his pocket for me for anything. This the same guy that bought me the hotel room and I honestly thought he made more than that, but in his defense he puts a lot of things on his business card as a write off , but ladies not always the richest are the most generous .. 🤔. Anyway, back story on this picture. He is such a simple guy like barely wears name brand, white T-Shirt and jeans .. and I told him when you are a certain age you don’t have to be extravagant but should invest in shoes, watches , and he had this terrible corny ass wallet and I told him he needs to upgrade himself and I’ll help. So one night we on the phone and I’m looking for a decent wallet for him to buy showed him what I like in expensive and moderately expensive and I come across this beautiful Bally wallet and told him girls pay attention to that. It was late and we were both tired so he was purchasing the wallet and I went ahead and said “I’m going to get something to match your wallet to be cute “ he said “okay pic something out “ I was like oh shit it’s too quick for me to scroll I was like let me get anything that way I can still exchange it for something I like. So I pick out this Tory Burch bag they were having a sale … It’s late he struggling to talk and stay up but I made sure he bought the bag but shipped it to his house and we hung up. Days go by and the bag never comes so he said I’ll do it again cause I didn’t see the charge on my card so I said okay, but after that he wasn’t inclined to get me the bag. One day I was low key mad at him and he buys the same bag to get my attention and I see the email but it was another color but this color wasn’t on sale like the other one. Boom! Finally I get confirmation I’m getting a new bag. So days pass and he was like “Guess what?!” And I was like “What happen?” He was like “The first bag I bought you came in today, he said I must of used a different card” he was like can we return one, cause there was another bag still coming to my house” In my head I was like ugh I want both but I just simply told him okay! I was like when the other bag come I’ll see which one I like better .. the other bag comes and I didn’t like both of them .. anyway he got lazy trying to return one bag he was like just have them both and exchange them!! So today I went and exchange both them bags and got this dope casual bag and some perfume and put the rest on a gift card .. but I had to let him go he was getting to serious, wanted me to meet his kids , wanted all my time and I didn’t think I could really get more out of him .. so I had the perfect excuse to dip and I did just that. It was nice knowing you “Range Rover” I got some bills paid , food, hotel room, flight ticket, and this beautiful bag , some cash and I’m out 06-21-18 ✌🏼

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Random Tinder Tips

For Tinder you are trying to draw in the guy that has the lifestyle you like .. Rich! lol

Things I’ve noticed..

A guy with suede seats in a car weather it is his or he’s in the passenger, I immediately swipe nope because almost every luxury car has leather seats 😲(think about it) ...

Whats working for me lately is the last picture I posted a sexy picture with me in some bad ass heels (just my feet) and guys are really responding it opens the doors to talk about shoe shopping and the taste that they are used too..

I think I will keep updating this post because you guys are wasting time with non rich guys cause you can’t pinpoint the rich ones. Questions welcomed..

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you’re a pro girl😩💗

💁🏽‍♀️💁🏽‍♀️

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Free Hotel - My mouth game too crazy.

How do I explain this. I’ve been attending nursing school in NY. But my family moved so far away from my school at the end of my semester like a 1.5 hour drive. I start talking to this dude I’ll call him “Range Rover” on Tinder we start talking and I told I can’t meet him until after my final and he agreed. I explained to him that my final is coming up and I was suppose to sleep over my classmates house so I can make it to my final at 7am that I don’t want to risk it going from my house because I absolutely can’t be a second late. I also said lik

I wish I didn’t have to sleep at her house cause she lives with her man and her mom and I didn’t want to feel awkward, boom just like that he booked a room close to my school so I wouldn’t be late. The gag is we haven’t met in person yet! 05-22-18

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Back on my bully, I never mention sugaring I’m way past that! Im getting these dudes soley on tinder. He don’t even know a bitch fully married idgf 😂😂 I’m a greedy bitch, my bills are paid for so I guess I’ll use him for shopping, Body upkeep (Botox, facials,) and to renovate my new room. Stay woke I still got it

05-20-18

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Back on it!

Hey guys,

I know I told you guys I got married .. things were great but turned. As I married for love and thought it was an extra benefit that he had some coins. He is not the emotional type and it feels like I’m not even in a relationship because we live in different states and he isn’t there for me mentally/emotionally now a days just financially.

It’s all cool when you married a guy for money knowing that in the back of your head , but I didn’t. I married for true love; I really loved him poor or rich I thought I found my partner in crime/best friend. All these men I was dating that weren’t sticking around and he stayed even when I did weird shit. I fell hard , he bought me a car , all these designer , pay my school fees, gave me a debit card to his account. I thought he cared for me, it was a movie I was living. Even had some family jealous.

But it seems that he wants me to be a quiet kept woman, while he lives his bachelor life and some might say like okay that’s perfect but my hunger for my best friend, someone to talk to late nights , that you can vent and do simple shit like movies indoors still stays.

So I’ll be back to my sugar baby ways, while I live in NY and enjoy my time while he is in a different state taking care of me. I’ll explain more but gotta turn my savage again. 🤷🏽‍♀️

It’s the only way that will occupy me , and not bother my husband too much. Benefit from this marriage while it lasts.. never thought it would be me

Advice : it’s good to date African and let them trick on you but not marry them. Trust me

If anyone has been in a similar situation, be strong .

#complicated

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I’m really a spoiled wife tho.. 😝 I get just because gifts because he thinks I represent him so I should look a certain way. Like I never had Gucci , Louie , YSL , Dolce and Gabbana until I met him I had simple designer like Kate Spade, Burberry nothing too crazy ..I’m not those girls that come on here and lie like every story I’ve ever told you was the truth and just want to show how your life can change in just one year. Don’t give up..

it’s not always like this when he gets new money he will spoil but I don’t shop everyday of my life and if you saw me on a regular day I wear gym outfits cause I only go to school all the time. 04-07-18

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Many of you have noticed I haven’t posted like I used too. That’s because at the end of my hoe journey lol I kissed a frog and found my prince (so cheesy I know). What you don’t know that we fell so deep in love we jumped and got married (no prenup hoe 😝) 💍👰👰really really fast. But of course we had our moments were we still getting to know each other and although you see these beautiful blessings it’s very difficult to be married to an African girl. 😥 very manly, his way or the highway and you do what he says cause he’s the man and I must not ever complain and give him stress 🙄 I’m used to it cause my dad is like that but on top of having to feel the pressure of staying cute , and sexy at all times Jesus! But beats being a sugar baby cause there’s no feeling of security and sometimes you have a lot of daddies and sometimes you don’t even have one I don’t miss those days But I’m glad he realizes my worth and everything hes ever given me was on him I never asked for anything (not the car, designers, money, nothing!) the less I ask the more I get. But this time I’m asking for my surgery I want it before my birthday. But peep how I ask without asking pay attention

Don’t forget I still am a trophy wife with all this cellulite hoe 😝 03/06/18

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how do I figure out a guys net worth? I googled his name and only thing that came up was his company website

I’ve never knew exact figures when it came to a man I was dealing with. Sometimes that doesn’t even matter because one time on Seeking Arrangements a daddy I had was worth 10 million verified (no lie) was so cheap I didn’t get more then 1k out this guy I thought I was gonna get like 4K per month( if you scroll down I posted about this daddy) but my dude now bought me a car, pays my insurance, buys me bags and shoes basically funds my life and he don’t have no 10million. So look at it in ranges, if he has one home or multiple homes. Does he have a jet or a lot of employees will tell you he’s definitely a millionaire or does he have one bad ass car and a home and lives modestly will tell you okay maybe the 300k-500k range. Toys (boats, cars), restaurant choices and checking zip codes are tell tale signs and can give you a range.

P.S: my thing was to go on tinder and search in the rich zip codes 😏

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Daddy is paying for my surgery 💅🏽🤫 it’s gonna be quiet for these hoes lol .. Whatever I asked for he gives it to me; I just gotta get the right surgeon 👨‍⚕️if ya know some good surgeons slide in my DM’s

*does my stripper dance*