The first time you ask their permission to come would wreck them. Truly, it is altering their neural pathways because in doing so, you’ve helped them discover their new favorite sound. Doesn’t matter how you say it. Be it a quiet, breathy plea that’s more reminiscent of a confession than a question, or a sound you hardly recognize from yourself because of how raspy and desperate it is, it doesn’t matter. Hearing you not only voicing your desires, but outright asking them to let you fall, knowing they’ll catch you, gives them a feeling they’ve decided they can’t live without. And of course they’ll give you the permission you’re seeking, you’re being so good for them, who are they to deny you?