Cosimo Galluzzi
Xuebing Du
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NASA
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oozey mess
Keni
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taylor price
Jules of Nature
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if i look back, i am lost
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trying on a metaphor
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What does “The Spectrum” mean? Do some people have “more Autism” than others?
I covered these topics in a comic to help explain the extremely individual and incomparable nature of the autism spectrum!
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Exactly this!!! Thank you for sharing @a-moment-captured!!
Finally someone who gets people like me!!! Thank you!!! :)
Grooming is when someone builds a relationship, trust and emotional connection with a child or young person so they can manipulate, exploit and abuse them.
Grooming Can Look Like:
1. "Is that your real name? I don't really like to call people by their usernames."
Asking for personal information right away - It gives a false sense of intimacy and can be used later to threaten or blackmail.
2. "I see you like Band. My parents hate them. 😂 Do your parents know your music tastes?"
Segueing quickly into private life, sometimes asking invasive questions about home, friends, family, etc - It tells them whether or not a person is isolated, unhappy, self-destructive, unsupervised, etc. The more vulnerable a person is, the more successful grooming can be.
3. "I like your fan art. Do you do nsfw? Nothing crazy, just flirty..."
Bringing up sexuality or other adult subjects in a general way - It pushes the person's boundaries gently, getting them to talk about nsfw things in a way that feels nonthreatening.
4. "That post made a good point. I would never guess you're 14. You're really mature and well-spoken."
Describing the person as mature, smart, wise, resourceful, street-smart, etc - It's flattering, and it gives the illusion of equality and respect in their interactions.
5. "People hate what they don't understand. You're just so unique. I get it."
Reinforcing that the person is unique, misunderstood, above others, etc - It increases isolation and forms a sense of dependance on the groomer.
6. "Omg look at this guy's outfit! It's so hot! You know, you could totally rock something like this!"
Sexualizing the person in flattering ways - It feels like a compliment and edges farther past typical boundaries, normalizing more and more sexual interactions.
7. "That guy was out of line. 😤 I couldn't help it, I messaged him and told him if he doesn't leave you alone I'll doxx him. He won't be back. He knows I'll do it. Please don't be mad, I just hate when people mess with my friends... "
Defending the person, often inappropriately - It's a show of devotion to the person, a display of the potential for aggression that serves to nudge boundaries, and can be used to threaten or coerce later.
8. "I'm totally with you on Ship X. It's so bigoted to break up Ship Y like that. We ought to try to get those freaks banned."
Creating an other to unify against, often inappropriately - It creates a sense of intimacy and serves as a way to push boundaries by encouraging inappropriate behavior.
9. "Idk why you let her waste ur time. U don't need phoneys like that. You have me!!! 😂"
Discouraging competing relationships - It increases isolation, vulnerability and dependence.
10. "Listen, don't worry about your phone bill. I got it. Sent it thru your Kofi, plus a little extra. You deserve it."
Giving gifts, money, or paying bills - It creates a sense of intimacy, and possibly financial dependence. And it can be used as a source of guilt.
11. "Where are you??? Tell whoever you're with that I miss my bff!!!!!"
Checking in, keeping tabs, tracking or asking for updates - It diverts the person's attention onto the groomer, interrupts their social life to further isolate, and creates a pattern of guilt and responsibility for the groomer's feelings.
12. "I can't believe you'd abandon me like this. You know I have depression. Are you trying to make me suicidal? The least you could do is give me a couple weeks to find a new therapist. I'm gonna need one now."
Threatening to harm themselves, or implying that they might if contact ends - It plays on that sense of guilt and responsibility and can be used long after abuse has happened, to prevent disclosure.
Grooming doesn't happen by accident. By definition, it's deliberate. When someone begins grooming, they have already decided to abuse. From that point on, interaction has one goal. It creates a situation where the person being targeted has conflicting emotions about what's happening, no one they trust to give advice, and no way to break out without being the bad guy.
The setup - the grooming behaviors themselves - vary. One abuser might use many approaches, and might even change methods if a target isn't receptive. I think we can all agree that guilt-tripping and displays of aggression aren't healthy under any circumstances, but many common behaviors are things that can happen outside of grooming, in other contexts, and be ok. (An old friend might give generous gifts purely out of friendship, but someone who's practically a stranger, giving generous gifts, acting like an old friend, is potentially predatory.) That's why it can be so hard to see. We can't simply ban their tools or latch onto keywords. There are no elements that are always present. There's no set pattern. There are few flags that are always red. It's not that simple.
The only reliable and realistic way to keep vulnerable ppl safe is to teach them to recognize potential grooming by looking at the entirety of the situation, to trust their feelings, and to speak up.
Thank you.
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Me impatiently waiting for pictures of the new Disney limited edition dolls to be released:
Marvel me 2.0
Name: Char Lynn
Age: 21
Looks:
Clothes:
Skills: Knowledge of myths and legends, super soldier, Decedant Of Merlin
Backstory: Char was capture by Hydra in 1997. When The Winter Solider was still there’s. Being of the bloodline of Merlin, she was going to inherit Merlins powers. But as Hydra kidnapped her like a thief in the night, she never learn of her families legacey. Training alongside Nat before she went rouge, she soon realized Nat was right. Hydra was the true enemy. As she was sent to spy on the Avengers under Hydras command. She knew at least Nat could help free her from Hydra.
Crush: Bucky Barnes
@ShotgunPikahcu
@shotgunpikachu
Marvel me 2.0
Name: Char Lynn
Age: 21
Looks:
Clothes:
Skills: Knowledge of myths and legends, super soldier, Decedant Of Merlin
Backstory: Char was capture by Hydra in 1997. When The Winter Solider was still there’s. Being of the bloodline of Merlin, she was going to inherit Merlins powers. But as Hydra kidnapped her like a thief in the night, she never learn of her families legacey. Training alongside Nat before she went rouge, she soon realized Nat was right. Hydra was the true enemy. As she was sent to spy on the Avengers under Hydras command. She knew at least Nat could help free her from Hydra.
Crush: Bucky Barnes
@ShotgunPikahcu
Marvel me 2.0
Name: Char Lynn
Age: 21
Looks:
Clothes:
Skills: Knowledge of myths and legends, super soldier, Decedant Of Merlin
Backstory: Char was capture by Hydra in 1997. When The Winter Solider was still there's. Being of the bloodline of Merlin, she was going to inherit Merlins powers. But as Hydra kidnapped her like a thief in the night, she never learn of her families legacey. Training alongside Nat before she went rouge, she soon realized Nat was right. Hydra was the true enemy. As she was sent to spy on the Avengers under Hydras command. She knew at least Nat could help free her from Hydra.
Crush: Bucky Barnes
List 5 things that make you happy, then put this in the askbox of 10 random people. Spread the positivity! 💝
FamilyFriends DonatelloCastiel from supernatural Bucky Barnes from Marvel
My X-men oc
Name: Aurora Xavier
Nickname(S): Aura , Cursed one
Hero/ Mutant name: Spirit
Age: 21
Powers : The ability to read people’s thoughts and minds plus the ability to grow plants, vines etc. at will.
Parents: Charles Xavier (Father, alive)/ Ororo alias Storm (Mother , alive)
Back story : Aura was found on the steps of the orphanage in a small town in Mexico . The nun’s there rasied her to be a proper lady . At age six her powers started to show. But she hid them well . At age seventeen Mother Grace and Sister Marie caught using her abilities giving her the nickname cursed one believing she was evil. They locked her away in the bellfree until she was twenty-one . Then forced her to train to become a nun.
Friends: Sofia (Mystique in deguise ), Roy Gomez (The mayor’s teenage rebel son.)
Crush: Logan Howlett alias Wolverine / Alternative Steve Rogers
Extra: her clothing she wears while living at the orphanage . …..
When at nun training school….
Extra extra: Her movieverse face claim is…..
Hello you sorry sack of shit. Stop desperately hiding behind fake accounts. It's fucking pathetic. If your life is so terribly empty, why not take the easy way out and kill yourself you fake ass bitch.
Its fine grey face let it all out poor thing with no life
I seriously hate these kind of people.. they just needed to be smuggled into hugs
Lets hug the haters^^
@flipsorenson-99, @nikitaboeve
Leave @devilsnevercry1388 ALONE YOU SORRY PIECE SHIT!!! SHE’S NOT DONE ANYTHING TO YOU!!! AND YOU TELL HER TO GO DO SOMETHING TO HURT HERSELF EXCUSE ME BUT LEAVE HER THE SHIT ALONE!!! SHE’S A WONDERFUL PERSON WHO DOESN”T NEED YOUR SHITTY WORDS!!! @devilsnevercry1388 Let me know if this piece of shit bothers you again.
Reblog if you think the person you reblogged this from deserves to be happy.
Camelot unknown lost bloodline
Name: Charlene Batson
Nickname: Char, Angel
Age: 22
Height: 5'7"
Nationality: American / french
Spieces: Human
Looks: ( Supernatural)
( Scooby-Doo , but with a different hairstyle and her greyish blue eyes)
( Hairstyle for above picture)
Clothes: ( Supernatural)
( Scooby-Doo)
Make-up: ( Scooby-Doo verse only)
Crush/Boyfriend: Dean Winchester
Likes: Painting , riding her bike, being a hunter , her cat- Felix
Dislikes: Her Elder brother Micky Barton, when she gets stuck without a plan, Tiffany her Aunt who wants her to seattle down in life, also when she gets zapped into someplace she doesn't know
Personality: Rebel, spirited, caring, Brave, strong-willed, smart
Backstory : Charlene Batson grew up in a suburb town of Legend, New York. But she knew something no one else did about her family. Her family is the last surviving of the long hidden bloodline of King Arthur. Not knowing until their father told her the truth in why he had to disappear. Morganna was returning and he needed to protect her mother, herself and her older brother. It wasn't until her twenty birthday that realized she could call upon exculibar when she needed to fight creatures of darkness. But she kept this secret from her family as she left on her motorcycle and became a hunter. Which is what leads her to being trapped inside Scooby-Doo the cartoon at one point.
Hunter or Hunted: Hunter/ Morganna is hunting her down trying to find her.
Extra: the phrase she uses to call exculibar. ' Light once more oh loyal sword of Camelot!'
Theme song: Not dead yet by Jen Ledger
RULES: post a SONG that reminds you of your muse and tag 5 people whose songs you ALSO want to see.
Steve- It’s All Good by Cavetown
https://youtu.be/1iLD8oyWfps
Jaymie- Song of the Sea by Lisa Hannigan
https://youtu.be/q6wVijh2n9g
Tyler- While My Guitar Gently Weeps by the Beatles lemme be old dammit
https://youtu.be/VJDJs9dumZI
Paisley- Breezeblocks by Alt J
https://youtu.be/nPlXdFwWcV4
Ripley- You’re So Creepy by Ghost Town
https://youtu.be/vB5nK99ssI4
Tagging @jasonofthenight @doodle-toon @psychofangirl17 and anyone else who wants to do it
Leonardo: Imagine Dragons - It’s time
https://www.youtube.com/results?search_query=imagine+dragons+-+it%27s+time
Nightshade: Skillet - Monster
Tagging: @untitled4185 @tur-nerd-tle-girl @raph-sai-fire @toomanyotpslove @ihlni686
Tagged by the my good friend @leonardo-the-leader
I think the best song that describes me is ‘Easy’ by Sheryl Crow
Tagging:
@saismatters @wrath-and-ruin @veiled-tigerlily @inferno-of-fate @tur-nerd-tle-girl
Tagged by both @sage-n-wizdom and @saismatters
Haven’t really considered this before. If I had to think of something off the top of my head… this sounds cliche as all hell I’m sure, but the title - if nothing else - screams Jess.
Crazy Bitch - Buckcherry
@sapphireslily @dark-demon-s-tears @chameleonsss @thelightofseptember @devilsnevercry1388 and any one of you lovely people who would like to do this. 😚
Tagged by the beautiful wrath goddess @wrath-and-ruin
Ella:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hZT4tPfWxfg
Loki:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=O5il5PAx4A0
Zoya:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0MldsqKGnLA
Qing:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uXRYMsf1ZR8
Grisha:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9Xr86ytdfaA
@rose93-asks, @tmnthood2, @nerd-wizard-in-purple, @ihlni686, @alphawolfdad, @ask-daddyjoker, @lonealphawolfcas, @alphawolfcubby and any one who wanna do it
I was tagged by my friend, @devilsnevercry1388
Me: https://youtu.be/CjxugyZCfuw ( This is me)
Lyra: https://youtu.be/JDrschw-wdI ( Warrior - Kesha)
I tag @thelostandforgottenangel @thenorthernshadow @herdarkprince
What I would look like if I was in the world of TMNT!!!!
Name: Char Lynn
Age: 18
Bio: Is a mutant with water and fire abilities. She lives near the pizza shop that turtles visit a lot. One day she bumps into them while helping the owner…
Weapon: bow and arrows
crush: Raphael
@devilsnevercry1388 this one is the one I'll use for our rp but she's a bit older, she's age 30 in this.
With April Fools around the corner, here’s your fucking reminder:
DO NOT ASK SOMEONE OUT AS A JOKE.
DO NOT PRETEND TO LIKE SOMEONE AS A JOKE.
IT’S NOT FUCKING FUNNY, IT’S CRUEL.
Agreed, this isn't a funny prank guy's.
