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[awkwardunicornmagic]

Chronicles of a Cyber Stalker-1

Celebrity Worship Syndrome is something I’ve had great concerns about in American culture for years.  The tabloids at grocer checkout isles has always made me feel uncomfortable.  Does anyone really care about the personal lives of people whose careers are in the public eye? Why does the public feel it’s their right to pry into every minor detail and criticize it? I very strongly believe that celebrity worship culture has given both celebrities and those they are worshiped by a false sense of value in self.

So anyways, one day I came across an Instagram post of the Property Brother, Jonathan Scott.  He had recently been pictured with a group of friends having fun at a concert, and one fan assumed one of the women in the group was his new girlfriend.  I’ve noticed that famous men can’t have any women in their vicinity without worshipers assuming it’s his new love.  By contrast, women in the public eye can’t gain a pound without the public assuming they’re pregnant.  It’s strange and a part of American culture I will never understand. 

In this Instagram post, a fan congratulated him on his new girlfriend and tagged her.  Seemingly innocuous, but altogether rude, and creating unnecessary drama from his female fans. That’s when Bernadette Giacomazzo made a comment about how it was rude to assume a woman is sleeping with a man just because they were seen together.  A comment that garnered her support, new followers, and ultimately resulted in Jonathan Scott blocking the fan that tagged this alleged girlfriend and thus deleting Bernadette’s comment beneath her and all those that followed.  Looking back, that’s alsothe moment I joined a long list of victims that Bernadette has catfished, lied to, bullied, threatened, harassed, stalked and publicly slandered over her obsessions of celebrities she pretends to protect.  In recent years, her target has been Jonathan Scott

“Be careful who you connect with online. There’s a lot of crazy people out there,” the exact words of a Nashua County Police Officer who laughed with me over Bernadette’s “bogus” report against me.  I posted something online that she didn’t like and “she’s just being petty,” he told me.  Hindsight being what it is, I wish I had seen the warning signs of a mentally unstable person in the first message Bernadette sent to me in direct message on Instagram.  Her own authorities delicately explained that when a mentally deranged person demands to have a case report over something in their imagination, they will give them a number to help them feel safe. “But, there’s no case and no investigation.  There’s nothing to investigate.  We can’t do anything unless there’s an actual threat involved,” he explained.

And here we are, about a year and 2 months after her comment that lead me to believe I had met a like minded person who also had concerns about celebrity worship and how it negatively impacts both the public and public figure.  Boy was I mistaken.

After finding and reaching out to other victims of Bernadette Giacomazzo, talking to one of Jonathan Scott’s employees, company attorney and a family member as well as reading stories that other victims have posted online, I’m speaking out against my abuser, against cyber stalking and harassment, and the culture of celebrity worship that has given BG (as she’s known by her victims) a career writing gossip articles and blogs that only feed into and fuel the unhealthy fandoms she claims to be against.

If you really don’t like toxic celebrity worship BG, get a real journalist job. One that doesn’t involve you using a press badge as a means of stalking your target so you can gush over him in gossip articles as a means of getting his attention and affection.

[sweatydragonsoulghost]

So Jacinta doesn't remember her eh? If someone protected me and my partner like she claims I would remember.

[awkwardunicornmagic]

Chronicles of a Cyber Stalker-1

Celebrity Worship Syndrome is something I’ve had great concerns about in American culture for years.  The tabloids at grocer checkout isles has always made me feel uncomfortable.  Does anyone really care about the personal lives of people whose careers are in the public eye? Why does the public feel it’s their right to pry into every minor detail and criticize it? I very strongly believe that celebrity worship culture has given both celebrities and those they are worshiped by a false sense of value in self.

So anyways, one day I came across an Instagram post of the Property Brother, Jonathan Scott.  He had recently been pictured with a group of friends having fun at a concert, and one fan assumed one of the women in the group was his new girlfriend.  I’ve noticed that famous men can’t have any women in their vicinity without worshipers assuming it’s his new love.  By contrast, women in the public eye can’t gain a pound without the public assuming they’re pregnant.  It’s strange and a part of American culture I will never understand. 

In this Instagram post, a fan congratulated him on his new girlfriend and tagged her.  Seemingly innocuous, but altogether rude, and creating unnecessary drama from his female fans. That’s when Bernadette Giacomazzo made a comment about how it was rude to assume a woman is sleeping with a man just because they were seen together.  A comment that garnered her support, new followers, and ultimately resulted in Jonathan Scott blocking the fan that tagged this alleged girlfriend and thus deleting Bernadette’s comment beneath her and all those that followed.  Looking back, that’s alsothe moment I joined a long list of victims that Bernadette has catfished, lied to, bullied, threatened, harassed, stalked and publicly slandered over her obsessions of celebrities she pretends to protect.  In recent years, her target has been Jonathan Scott

“Be careful who you connect with online. There’s a lot of crazy people out there,” the exact words of a Nashua County Police Officer who laughed with me over Bernadette’s “bogus” report against me.  I posted something online that she didn’t like and “she’s just being petty,” he told me.  Hindsight being what it is, I wish I had seen the warning signs of a mentally unstable person in the first message Bernadette sent to me in direct message on Instagram.  Her own authorities delicately explained that when a mentally deranged person demands to have a case report over something in their imagination, they will give them a number to help them feel safe. “But, there’s no case and no investigation.  There’s nothing to investigate.  We can’t do anything unless there’s an actual threat involved,” he explained.

And here we are, about a year and 2 months after her comment that lead me to believe I had met a like minded person who also had concerns about celebrity worship and how it negatively impacts both the public and public figure.  Boy was I mistaken.

After finding and reaching out to other victims of Bernadette Giacomazzo, talking to one of Jonathan Scott’s employees, company attorney and a family member as well as reading stories that other victims have posted online, I’m speaking out against my abuser, against cyber stalking and harassment, and the culture of celebrity worship that has given BG (as she’s known by her victims) a career writing gossip articles and blogs that only feed into and fuel the unhealthy fandoms she claims to be against.

If you really don’t like toxic celebrity worship BG, get a real journalist job. One that doesn’t involve you using a press badge as a means of stalking your target so you can gush over him in gossip articles as a means of getting his attention and affection.

[sweatydragonsoulghost]

I have been connected with Bernadette as well in the past. She told me so much about Jonathan Scott & his family. She always talked about his "crazy fans" when in reality she is the one that's crazy obsessed. She never had negative to say about him until after the event she attended in Toronto where he was also at & claiming he paid for all her expenses because he "wanted to see her" after that event he went public with Zooey Deschanel & that's when her bad talking him started on a gossip site where she prestends to be a 62 year old black woman. She said to me before that Jonathan has invited her to his house with him & Jacinta & told Jacinta how much his friendship with Bernadette meant to him & says Jacinta told her thanks for always protecting Jonathan. She is the crazy obsessed one. Why else would she travel to Canada just to take pictures of him? She also claims that in a video she posted of him that she knew he wanted her because of how he looked at her in the video. It was a 2 second glance & nothing about it said I want you. Beware of this woman! She's nuts!