I think a lot of people would benefit from unlearning the idea that casual sex is inherently disgusting, harmful, or immoral just because they personally don’t want to partake in it. You can stand up for sexual safety and consent without acting like people who enjoy fucking strangers are degenerates. I take no issue with anyone asserting boundaries or stating that they’re not interested in certain kinds of sex or even sex as a whole. But when you condemn or express disgust at others for engaging in consensual sex, that’s when you start to sound like a puritan.
Btw, this includes self-proclaimed “feminists” who shame and lecture women for giving men “access” to their bodies. Bodies are not commodities and sex is not inherently transactional. You don’t lose anything by having sex on purpose with a person you find attractive. Sex is not some metaphysically transformative thing that bonds you to the other person forever. It is literally not that deep.
I'm on the asexual spectrum and I will never stop supporting people to do whatever the hell they want with their bodies, with whoever the hell they want. Just as long as they're safe and consenting. And preferably not cheating.
And if the person they're hooking up with has a cute pet, I may demand pictures of it. But other than that, I'm very easy-going about things that are none of my business. (And it's weird that we've reached a point in time where we have to specify that sort of thing.)









