Boundaries
I’m creating this post in order to pin it, but I will put it below a readmore so it doesn’t take up your whole screen.
My asks remain open usually, if you would like me to respond to you privately please say so, or message me instead.
I may not answer your ask if:
It seems leading/like you are trying to start discourse for the sake of discourse.
You ask anything along the lines of “is it trauma if“ or something that, directly or indirectly, is trying to get me to diagnose you.
It is a personal question best suited for your therapist, or an overly technical question that is beyond my personal experience. (though I may answer the ask just to tell you this, depending)
It is “soapboxing,“ using my platform to elevate your ideas/opinions
It makes me uncomfortable for any reason, including being graphic, offensive, triggering, or for a personal reason.
I will likely block your blog if:
You are a minor, I do not want to be responsible for a young person's introspection on themselves nor influence them about their mental health.
It is a hateful or discourse blog, regardless of the target. (This may or may not reflect my views on said target, I just don't like that much negativity in my spheres)
It is a “cringe“ or “flop“ account.
You are heavily focused on plurality, systemhood, or similar regardless of origin. By which I mean primarily talk about alters/headmates/etc.
You seem to be a writer/artist or otherwise looking into DID for reasons I find disrespectful.
You will tag my posts in association with neurodiversity and/or "mad pride."
You use it/its pronouns. I have specific traumatic experiences with these pronouns and do not want to misgender you if you use them but also cannot use them for you without triggering myself so I'll just block you instead. This is literally for both our sakes.
You use names outside of your culture, including for introjects. I'm sick of white people using anime characters names when literally no Asian ever has been allowed to use our own names in school.
You otherwise make me uncomfortable. I may or may not answer questions about why I blocked your blog, as oftentimes my reasons are personal. I am a human, not just a mindless content-producer.
I do not have a DNI/DNF, but I will block blogs that make me uncomfortable if you show up in my notes. This is my way of keeping my internet experience comfortable and enjoyable.
I am not a professional, and please don’t use me as any sort of ultimate reference. I am a person diagnosed with DID, who does a fair amount of reading and has lived experience but has not studied psychology in any professional capacity. Unless otherwise sourced, assume my content and posts come from a place of personal experience and are subject to being wrong, as well as not being a "universal" experience.
On a positive note, followers/friends/etc feel free to tag me in things about bees, calico cats, Sonic the Hedgehog, the Legend of Zelda, or anything else you think I'd like looking at! 💜
