Hi ! That is not a submit, just a few words. I just wanted to say I really liked your interpretation about Joffrey and Robert. It's just so good !
I used to think Robert was only a drunk, fat king who never wanted power and lived in the past, but I discovered recently (I watch the show - where it's not strongly implied he is an abusive husband and father - and I'm only at book one of ASOIAF) the things he has done. Like you have said, Joffrey could have turned a lot better if he had had better role models (I think he would have had some sadistic urges, but he would have repressed or controlled them at least). But I think that Cersei is the one who could have been totally different of what she is now, because she seemed to be so full of hope and dreams when she was young. With a decent husband, she could have been far more... stable than she is. But Robert's behavior towards her crushed them, and I think he played a big part in her paranoids tendencies and especially her desperate need to protect her children. So, even if I still don't like her for the things she has done (NEEDDD !!!), I understand her a little bit better.
Anyways, sorry for this long message. You probably didn't care, but I just wanted to let you know I found your analysis very deep and relevant !
I hope is ok to post this.
I agree about Robert. That was my interpretation too of him in the beginning. I actually pitied him. And it wasn't till my re-read when I started seeing a lot of things that bothered me about him. I think it is easy to get that idea of him, because mostly we get to know him through Ned's eyes. And Ned is not reliable when it comes to Robert. If we think about it, he really saw all the things his friend did, like fathering bastards, hardly ever caring for them, being abusive towards his wife, and drowning himself in wine, and yet he didn't really stopped seeing him as a good man grieving the love of his life, and having too much to handle as King. I think it's Ned's views on him what made me not look at all the things he had done, and that would have changed my feelings if it had been another character. Hardly ever Ned really allowed himself to see the flaws in his friend, yet he recognized there were problems there.
I think Joffrey would have been different if he had had different role models to guide him. I do think that there's something about his personality that drives him to be the way he is. But maybe he would have, like you said, controlled himself better, if at least one father figure would have paid some attention to him.
Really interesting what you point about Cersei. I haven't considered that in that way. I do think that the people who surrounds a person can definitely change that person for good or bad, but I can't really blame something like Cersei abandoning all her dreams and hopes because of the kind of husband Robert was. There's a big impact on it for sure, but ultimately I feel she would have kept a relationship on the side with Jaime anyway, and would have made her house prevail over the one resulting from the Baratheon-Lannister marriage. I can't just point at Robert and say because he was the way he was she has those paranoid tendencies. I think Robert did have a big impact in Cersei, for the wrong and not for the right. But it might have to do as well with a mix of that and her status in her own family, her father and the way he raised her and the way he treated her. I think many things come into place when it comes to Cersei's actions, paranoia, and struggles. Robert, his treatment towards her, and the way he was about his not legitimate children, is a factor on it, but I don't think it's majorly the cause of them. Mainly it comes from somewhere else, but since you are in book one, I don't want to spoil it. And maybe even when you finish the books, you could totally disagree about this one with me.
Thanks! Interesting topic to discuss. :)













