(if you're in plural party you've already seen this lol)
okay so we think we had a system collapse but now people who haven't talked as much are being active so thats good???
anyways we need name help
scopophobia tw? maybe? eye contact?
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(if you're in plural party you've already seen this lol)
okay so we think we had a system collapse but now people who haven't talked as much are being active so thats good???
anyways we need name help
scopophobia tw? maybe? eye contact?
also we wanna attempt to tell our aunts more about plurality (and hopefully get them to realize/understand/acknowledge that it's our reality and not just something in the background or something ignorable) but ik it's a Big Topic and a Confusing Topic and i'm not sure where (else) to start explaining and i don't think they know what questions to ask. like. it's reality for us, so idk what to explain to someone who has no clue. it'd be nice to have someone irl who truly tries though, especially the people we live with.
so i have questions for singlets! 1) when you first heard about plurality, what was your reaction?
2) what were you most confused about? is there anything you're still confused about?
3) what were some misconceptions you had about systems before you met any?
4) do you know any systems in real life? if yes, how do you interact with them and their separate members? if no, how do you think you would? (be honest, i know you're not perfect /lh)
5) if one of your irl friends you already know came out as a system, what would your reaction be?
6) what do you think would help you see different people as different people when they share a body? (basically, what would help you see different headmates as themselves rather than the singletsona) 7) what types of explanations have helped/do help you understand these things?
8) what do you think would help you/singlets in general treat conversations about in-system things, exomemories, headmate interactions, etc. as "normal"? would you be able to have a conversation that started with (for example) "in my source" or "in the headspace" in real life? (asking this because the conversation always stops and gets super awkward for seemingly no reason when any part of our plurality is like. mentioned at all)
9) anything else to add on the topic?
(please don't spread this or reblog without answering- this isn't meant to be a super public thing /g)
love that i Could've become a superhero or whatever in-source but i just didn't
love how the main protectors of the system are a badass faerie, a pyrokinetic assassin, and a gnc twink. truly iconic of us
turns out i suck at coping skills
adrian & eli, enemies to lovers, 4k angst fic
so for christmas we got a coffee press from ex-mom right
except our aunts don't drink coffee
so we couldn't use it because there was no coffee in the house
BUT yesterday when we went out for donuts she gave us coffee to go with it (and creamer because black coffee is no) so i now am icing coffee >:D
*excited gay stereotype noises*