is there a term like aplatonic/nonamorous/etc. but specifically because of trauma or bad experiences with qpps in the past? I heard of adfecturomantic or however it's spelled but not so much one specifically for squishes and queerplatonic relationships (I still want to be romantic but I can't stand being in qpp anymore since my last one ended really horribly)
you can use [prefix]queerplatonic, e.g. caedqueerplatonic
Caed- / Caedo-: A feeling that one was previously able to experience a particular kind of attraction, but that ability was lost due to trauma or negative events.
Klape-: When you feel as though your ability (or potential) to experience traditional attraction has been taken away from you due to abuse, trauma, neurodivergency, illness, or any other similar factor, including any combination of them.
-forced: A feeling that one only feels a type of attraction due to trauma/abuse, and would not feel that type of attraction if they had not experienced that trauma/abuse.