#23015

[leomacgivena]

茹でガエル【ゆでがえる】〔商〕ビジネス環境の変化に対応する事の重要性を説く警句の一種。『カエルは、いきなり熱湯に入れると驚いて逃げ出すが、常温の水に入れて水温を上げていくと逃げ出すタイミングを失い最後には死んでしまう』という作り話が由来だが、実際のカエルはすぐに逃げ出すという。

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[outragedtortilla]

Been thinking about reciprocity lately. I know I struggled a lot as a kid and ESPECIALLY as a teen to really know what / when to reciprocate, which meant I built a lot of friendships with people who didn't reciprocate but also didn't care that I didn't reciprocate either. But then I went on and learned about reciprocity and for me it was more like a choice thing? Like sure there's definitely people who expect it, but I also started adopting specific rules to reciprocate bECAUSE it meant I could interact with people who did reciprocate and that experience is so difference. Like as much as more of society needs to accept that sometimes interactions between neurodivergent people are like person A infodumping and then person B infodumping about their own stuff too, I also started reserving space for allowing myself to want more reciprocity. Like, if my grandparent dies I understand if your way to comfort me is to tell me about your special interest and it's the way you display empathy but also? I genuinely in that moment needed something more. It's more like a fit thing. There's also a huge gap between the scenario of a) person A infodumps about special interest and b) person B infodumps about special interest (which I LOVE, like tell me all about the things that set fire to your soul or whatever the phrase is, babe, I will listen and sip my warm tea forever) I also now set clear boundaries for a) person A infodumps about special interest and b) person B infodumps about special interest but needs to be RIGHT and DELIBERATELY knocks down other person's special interest. Like it's not just the part about making space for truly sharing special interests, you know? It's about whether we connected at all, EVEN within neurodivergent vibes. And sometimes we don't, and you don't get to tell me I'm not neurodivergent enough for wanting my needs met in a different way.

[expressnews2day]

Uproar In Senate Over New PENCOM Appointments https://elevationforum.com/11707/uproar-in-senate-over-new-pencom-appointments/#23015 @uspbgc @brighton_pensioners_club https://www.instagram.com/p/CFvEOKmDQa6/?igshid=1e4c0eieh8a7u

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Nicolas Geiser  - Red forest, red sea, 2015, huile sur toile, 30 x 24 cm

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