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jak-wiewiorka
233-145
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missthorinoakenshield
mariana-lifts
pennacchioli
training-to-become-an-assassin
freed-fairy
sabrinavandemaas

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My Tumblr Crushes:
jak-wiewiorka
233-145
running-a-fitblr
missthorinoakenshield
mariana-lifts
pennacchioli
training-to-become-an-assassin
freed-fairy
sabrinavandemaas
The Fitbit dash is Apple!
Okay, thanks! Probably why mine is still the old one! :)
@233-145 tagged me to post five things that make me happy, & then tag 5 people. Thanks girly! I could use the positivity today. :) 1. Lavendar-scented anything. So soothing. 2. A hot cup of tea. Again, soothing. 3. My gym! Because without it, I'd lose my mind. 4. Flowers. 5. FRIDAYS. 😄👏🏼🎉 I'll tag @the-incredible-shrinking-darcy @fatmaninalittlesuit @error404-fatnotfound @northernmomma & @harcules. Let's hear it!
The fantastic @233-145 tagged me to do this cute little survey, and since I have some downtime, why not!
LAST
last drink: ice water
last phone call: my husband
last text message: my mother-in-law, coordinating a family vacation :)
last song you listened to: hmmm, something from The Head and The Heart this morning on the train
last time i cried: not sure? it’s been a little while. I don’t cry very often.
HAVE YOU EVER
dated someone twice: I don’t think so
been cheated on: yup
kissed someone and regretted it: nah
lost someone special: yes
been depressed: nope, thankfully
been drunk and thrown up: oh boy, once or twice. good old college days.
IN THE PAST YEAR, HAVE YOU
made a new friend: a bunch!
fallen out of love: yes
laughed until you cried: oh yea! love it.
met someone who changed you: not necessarily
found out who your true friends are: it’s a constant process, but nothing noteable in the past year really.
GENERAL
how many people on tumblr do you know in real life: mmm, none!
do you have any pets: yep, two adorable kitties.
do you want to change your name: nope, I like Val.
what time did you wake up this morning: I actually slept in! didn’t sleep well last night, so I let myself sleep until 7 today.
what were you doing last night: I came home from work, cooked chicken rollatini, ate dinner with the hubs, watched some TV, and went to bed.
name something you cannot wait for: for the boat we’re currently buying to be ours, and to sail it around this summer!
have you ever talked to a person named tom: yep, a few of them. the one currently in my life is pretty strange, but friendly.
what’s getting on your nerves rn: nothing at the moment, but work is super super stressful this week. GAH
blood type: I’m an adult I should know this
nicknames: most everyone calls me by my last name, or just Val
status: super duper married!
zodiac: gemini
pronouns: she/her
favourite tv show: there are so many. Breaking Bad, The Office, New Girl, Parks & Rec, & Brooklyn Nine-Nine would probably round out the top five.
high school: I went to one... yep
college: a state college in NJ
hair colour: brunette
long or short: long! grow baby grow
do you have a crush on someone: a big ol’ crush on my husband, yep
what do you like about yourself: I don’t give up on things / people, my sense of humor, my eyes, the fact that I’m a good cook, my intelligence, ability to be flexible
tattoos: none for me. unfortunately I pass out every time I get an injection / shot / give blood and I literally cannot control it. it’s ridiculous.
righty or lefty: righty
FIRSTS
first surgery: *knocks on wood*
first piercing: my ears, in my teen years
first best friend: her name was Sonya and my parents frowned upon our friendship quite significantly lol
first sport you joined: softball - because dad wanted me to
first vacation: probably Montauk / Martha’s Vineyard / somewhere like that..
first pair of sneakers: what on earth is this question
RN
eating: nada
drinking: water
i’m about to: go to bed
listening to: cars drive by our apartment and the dishwasher doing it’s thang
waiting for: this damn week to be over?
want kids: do I want them right now? no. do I want them? yes.
get married: I am! and it’s awesome.
career: currently cash management operations for a Scandinavian shipping bank. I like where my path is headed so who knows if that will change
WHICH IS BETTER
lips or eyes: eyes I suppose
hugs or kisses: hugs? kisses? don’t make me choose
shorter or taller: taller
older or younger: older
romantic or spontaneous: romantic ally spontaneous? I’m difficult
sensitive or loud: sensitive, for sure. overtly loud people tend to make me uncomfortable a little bit. my husband says I have snake ears. I guess snakes don’t like loud noises?
hook up or relationship: relationshippppppppppppp
troublemaker or hesitant: hesitant.
HAVE YOU EVER
kissed a stranger: nope
drank hard liquor: yep
lost glasses/contacts: yeah, I’m awfully good at losing things
sex on a first date: nope nope
broken someone’s heart: I think so? I dunno
been arrested: nope
turned someone down: yeah
cried when someone died: yes
fallen for a friend: yep, turned out quite well thank you
DO YOU BELIEVE
in yourself: I do, for the most part
miracles: I think so
love at first sight: not really, I think I used to
heaven: I think so
santa: OBVIOUSLY YES <<because this was Carey’s answer and it made me laugh out loud, I’m not changing it :D
If you’d like to take part, tell me about yourself @fatgirlgetsfitatlast @mom-arms @thegirlwhoateme @dontcallmecosmo @shortgirlstrength, @frontalbread and anyone who else who happens to stumble upon this!
I'm baa-aaack!
We got home last night after a full day of traveling. The trip was nothing short of amazing and I will be posting plenty of recap posts & photos later today and throughout the weekend I'm sure. (Thank the Lord that I decided to take today off work.) My sleep schedule has been 110% bonkers, so please excuse me while I sit here on my couch at 3:30am and stalk some blogs! I've missed you all a ton and cannot wait to catch up!
Happy birthday, love! :)
Thank you!! :D
#SparkingTheFire: Day 19
Tuesday January 19 - Track Tuesday
Music makes the world go round!
What music helps keep you working hard during your workout? Is there a song, artist, or type of music that really keeps you moving? Is there a specific song that really pushes you hard when you want to give up?
Share with us a small list of 3 of your favs!
Oh man, it’s so hard to choose three! I’ll go with three songs that never fail to make me push through the toughest moments during a run. I tend to go for high energy music for the most part, when working out - reggaeton, hip-hop, some pop.
1. DJ Snake, Lil Jon - Turn Down for What
2. Will I Am - Bang Bang
3. LMFAO - Party Rock Anthem
#SparkingTheFire: Day 11
Monday January 11th - Motivational Monday
What motivates you to eat healthier or to follow a specific nutrition plan?
My motivation to eat well is super simple: I want to be a healthier version of myself.
Do you cut out processed junk foods or limit what you have in the house so you don’t eat when you’re having a bad day, bored, etc?
I do try to limit what we have in the house. I know that my biggest weakness is potato chips, and so I really don’t keep them in the house. It works out better for everyone that way!
Do you still enjoy your favorite foods, but in moderation?
A lot of the moderation comes into play on the weekends. I know that too much restriction causes me to binge on the foods that I’m craving, so it’s healthy to let myself have a reasonable amount of my favorite foods once in a while. That’s typically in line with social events, dinners, etc., on the weekends.
Do you have any tips, tricks, or strategies you use to keep less-healthy foods to a minimum in your diet?
A lot of my good food choices come from how I know I’ll feel after eating certain foods. If I know they will make me feel sluggish, etc. after eating them, and I can remind myself of that before I eat, then I can help myself make a better decision.
Do you try new foods or recipes to keep things interesting and not feel monotonous?
Yes! I love cooking new things, trying new recipes, etc. It keeps things interesting and since I enjoy cooking, it’s a win-win.
When you go out to restaurants, do you check the menu beforehand to limit looking at unhealthy options to resist the temptation?
I do! Checking the menu beforehand is the best way for me to get an idea of the options I’ll have and mentally prepare myself. I come up with a few options that I know will be healthy but will also not leave myself feeling like I’m wanting more, even after I’ve eaten.