Flower Crowns are headbands or other hair accessories created by stringing a number of flowers together. On Tumblr, these floral accessories have become an exploitable photoshop meme by adding them to photos of males who would not normally wear them.
Everybody at the conference really liked my flower crown and I got a lot of compliments, even from strangers. (I think it looked especially good with my suit. I wore it for my panel and everything.) But I also got a lot of questions about whyyyyy I was wearing one and what it meant.
Flower crowns are a meme; they got picked up especially hard by fans of the tv show Hannibal, but putting them (via photoshop or sometimes in person) on masculine actors and characters is a very millennial way of queering and appropriating media. I think.
For me, wearing a flower crown around an academic conference, and inviting other people to wear my extra one with me, had a few purposes:
feminist critique of the discourses of respectability
playing with my identity and visibility as a queer millennial educator in a venue that skews a lot older
it looked awesome on me and my tumblr friends egged me on to do it
I was hesitant at first, but I have no regrets about the choice and considering how much we literally talked about tumblr and queer rhetorics at my panel (thanks queryingthequeer) it was an excellent choice.