Mars 7H:
Personal context: I’m an 7H Aries Mars.
Yall, when I say this was exactly my first relationship with a man. I dated a shy guy, but once he got with me, he literally told me “Nobody wanted me when I was single and then I date you and suddenly everybody wants a piece of me”. I had women that came out of NOWHERE (the sewers I presume) hate me just because they wanted him. Unfortunately for me, he was an attention whore and was described exactly as the second tweet was warns against.
It was one of my most painful experiences I have yet to live through. I was torn up that someone I was in love with, was so swayed by the attention of just anyone (I mean any old ugly thing Chile). I have no idea why he would hand out his contact information to just anyone, or what his intentions were. It’s honestly hurtful to even think of his reasons why. I just know it was horrible to experience and it changed me fundamentally in a way I’m still recovering from.
The love games that you endure with a man like this is horrible. People will OPENLY compete with you over YOUR OWN MAN. Like is that not crazy? I almost got into a fist fight with three girls who chose to disrespect me, in front of him, in order to show some sort of dominance for their ugly friend who had a crush on him. That was when I had enough. That’s when I realized no man that I ever love and loves me would ever put me in a situation where I have to put my hands on someone over him. For a Pisces, loyalty is honestly everything.
I will never involve myself with a man as secretly desperate for attention as him. My next man needs to have INTEGRITY and not be two faced.
What I want to point out here though is the importance of why a 7H mars needs to avoid lovers like this in correlation to the 7th and 1st house. This relationship fundamentally destroyed how I saw myself. I am a Leo moon ok. My confidence, my hope, and my heart, is the fuel source of my soul and keeps me optimistic. To have my partner (7H) break my heart caused collateral damage to my ego and how I viewed myself. If you are an Martian 7H, the ego death that awaits you with pieces of shit partners will drain your life source and if you are unlike me, a Pisces that can rebuild herself from ashes, it can be hard to come back from.