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Is it better to love someone or to be loved by someone?
loving someone feels nice–being loved feels nice too
both are kind of mutually exclusive for me though i guess i dont necessarily need to be loved by someone to feel happy by seeing them happy
heh i guess that makes me a bit of a bleeding heart yeah?
Is it better to personally be happy or give happiness to others?
give happiness to others–i mean, when the people i love are happy
then im happy my dude
personal happiness always comes second for me to be real here
(probably a side affect from the utter self-depreciating clusterfuck that was my childhood to be real here)
Is it better to get other’s approval or to be proud of ones own merits?
well
on one hand–my life and general mindset has literally revolved around the former for the longest time
on the other hand davis and i have been (sort of) working on the whole ‘being proud of yourself’ thing its been a bit of a ‘process’