i think a big problem with the person u are being different from the person that u want to be is that when ppl love the person u are it's a rejection of who ur trying to b. the stronger the love, the lower the chance that the emotion would carry across if u were fundamentally different. someone choosing you over anyone else means ur even more trapped in an incorrect portrayal of urself. love isolates you because it's a reminder of who you'll never be











