“I am not romantic, you know; I never was.” - Charlotte Lucas, Pride & Prejudice

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“I am not romantic, you know; I never was.” - Charlotte Lucas, Pride & Prejudice
I think it’s awesome that they brought this up. As a straight cisgender male, I never really think about these things and this was an actual thing I learned while watching. I’m still a little confused by the exact semantics, and a conversation in person rather than online would probably be more effective, but now I at least realize that a distinction exists.
I wasn't gonna forget about PRIDE MONTH!! I’m a-romantic, of course I’m gonna do something. Here’s me, no line art pic.
The A-Sexual Ravenclaw™ aesthetic is cute and all
(Shout out to Pidge, my child)
But I prefer the A-Romantic Ravenclaw™, what's more illogical and wasteful of time; romance or sex?
Go, my Sexual-Intellectuals and be the A-Romantic hoes you want to be~ ✨
"A-seksueel" ("A-spectrum")
“A-seksueel” (“A-spectrum”)
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Thinking about it, I've realized something. "Crushes" are nothing but chemicals going all fucky in our brains....And I seem to lack anything that you would call "love". I realized most of my attractions are all lust and nothing more.
I'm A-Romantic Bi-Sexual.
And before you say "romance" has to do with sex, not in any technical term. It just means you feel "attraction" for someone, and in most cases that means love. I don't feel that emotion. I never realized it until I met someone and now that I've realized it......
Now I don't give a shit. Completely don't. Love is a totally un-reliable, un-needed emotion that only distracts you from goals you'd have without it. Now I realize that caring about, and loving someone are quite different extremities. Caring about someone means you want them around, but not romantically. Loving someone implies relation typically, and that isn't my scene. Not saying that he "made me think that way" but more of "He made me realize something that was always there". I want to focus on my future, not shit that wouldn't matter anyways. And I have Psychic matters to tend to, not that anyone would know what that is like save for maybe my best friend and sister.
I tried so hard to feel something I should have realized meant nothing at all, and now that I've realized it......
I am built for lust and caring, maybe a parental/sibling type of this idea we call "love". But I am not built for relationships or anything of that sort. I'm not "girlfriend" material and now I know why. I'm not meant to be. Doesn't mean I can't fuck however, and if I am physically attracted to you, than by all means, take your shot at it.
I'm actually happy for once. Holy Shit.
I never realized this would make me happy.
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