#about vi

[musings-of-vi]

Hey, Im Vi and this is my sfw sideblog.

I will block blank blogs and bots btw. Please have a age in your bio.

Some random info

Im Vi, 28 yo, my pronouns are she/they

Im from Europe

I have adhd and autism, what a lovely combo

I love forests, trees, nature, bernesemountaindogs, art, painting, going at art museums, reading

I relate more trees than humans idk

Im studying art and one day Im going to be fine artist. Art and nature are my passions lol

Im on episode 1045 on One Piece

Other passions include activism, being a menace for the system/cistem, anime, playing games (im always looking good recomendations btw both games and anime!!), onepiece, pirates, drawing, daydreaming, archaeology, creating oc's and lore for my writings, witches and their history (I could yapp about this eternity), ancient world, history, mytologies, folklore... (this list will be continued lol)

[violetclarity]

17 Questions

@aibidil tagged me probably uhhh 2 weeks ago at this point? Time is meaningless so I’m doing it now!

Rules: Answer 17 questions and tag 17 people you’d like to know better

Nickname: vi

Zodiac: Aquarius babyyy

Height: 5′4″

House: Hufflepuff represent

Last thing I googled: my phone tells me that it was the sewalong for the robe I was making my mom for mother’s day?

Song in my head: none at the moment but yesterday I listened to No Shape in the morning and then had “Slip Away” stuck in my head for awhile (aib also gets the credit for introducing me to Perfume Genius)

Following: 285

Followers: 405 - hello, friends!

Amount of sleep: 8 hours, unless I’m catching up on sleep; I actually can’t sleep for much longer than 8 hours

Lucky number: 9

Dream job: I don’t dream of working tbh! Would love to be self-employed doing something creative like writing and actually making enough to live off of. Sewing or knitting pattern samples would be super cool. When I was little I wanted to be an actor and maybe part of me still does.

Wearing: black leggings and a Halloween sweatshirt that I sewed in October bc why not really

Fave songs: Is this supposed to be a list of 3? I rotate through so much music and switch it up every few months so this is tricky! The latter two are momentary favorites

“Chateau Lobby #4 (in C for Two Virgins)” by Father John Misty - not to sound incredibly pretentious but this may actually be my all-time favorite song

“Homegirl” by King Princess (honorable mention: Talia, 1950, Hit the Back)

“Good Wife” by MIKA (honorable mention: Tomorrow, Promiseland, All She Wants) (why is MIKA criminally underused on fandom playlists? I’ll just be over here crying in the corner about all of the Sirius and/or Draco vibes I get from “All She Wants”)

Instruments: in my life I have taken lessons for guitar, clarinet, and oboe but I forget how to play all of them! I also took almost a decade of voice lessons.

Random fact: I didn’t learn how to ride a bike until I was in 6th grade, promptly fell off and broke my ankle, and then didn’t get back on a bike until my sophomore year of college. Now I love biking though!

Fave author: Tamora Pierce, Neil Gaiman, David Sedaris, Naomi Novik

Fave animal sound: my cat meowing <3

Aesthetic: the small cottage I want to move to with an herb garden and backyard tomato plants and a colorful kitchen and cozy bedroom

Tagging (if you want!) @whiskyandwildflowers @frnklymrshnkly @goldentruth813 @restlessandordinary @julcheninred

[puppi-pico]

Answer the questions below and tag some blogs to do the same.

i wasnt tagged, but i wanted to do this so i dare you to try and stop me.

GENERAL

How many people on Tumblr do you know in real life?

1-2 my best friend Fi has a tumblr, and my bf has one, but hes never on soo??? idk if that real counts. but yall should go follow my girl Fi @prettyboyhands shes amazing and i love her, so you should love her too

Do you want to change your name?

yes, i really dont like my irl name. thats why i go by Violette, or literally Anything Else

What time did you wake up this morning?

5:15a.m for school :/

What were you doing last night?

i dont remember?? i know at one point i fed my fish, but i dont remember much else after that. 

Is there something you can’t wait for?

tomorrow!! Fi is coming over and its going to be gay and great

What’s getting on your nerves right now?

i dont like being so far from my s/o. i feel like im missing out ig. its weird having someone live less then 15 minutes away, and then next thing you know they are in a completely different state. 

Do you have a crush on someone?

i literally fall for anyone because i was starved of basic decency as a person, and so any simple kind gesture makes me convinced ill love that person forever. but its always like a small love if that makes sense. not a serious love. maybe just a tiny fondness

What do you like about yourself?

 idk, i look cool i guess. ive been told i dress like a major asshole, but really, im just an asshole trying my best. i also think my eyes are pretty cool sometimes. 

WANTS

Kids: maybe? 

Get married: at some point thatd be cool

Career: yeah sorta

LASTS

Last drink: jasmine green tea

Last meal: mac n cheese

Last phone call: Bee, my grandma

Last text message: “Dyamond from statefarm” one of my really good friends

Last song listened to: gtg ttyl- blckbear

Last time you cried: earlier while doing dishes. was crying about lil peep IN THE PAST YEAR HAVE YOU…

Made a new friend? yes, the love of my life @pretty-little-princess-love Fallen out of love?

yes, its been a year since that day. and it sounds messed up but im glad i realized some things, because if i didnt cut a certain person out of my life, i wouldnt be with the person i have now. 

Met someone who changed you?

definitely 

Found out who your true friends were?

somewhat

Found out someone was talking about you?

ha, that wet piece of bread from cheer ya. 

NOW

Eating: nothing

Drinking: water

Listening:pretty girl- clairo I’m about to: feed my fish then take a shower

WHICH IS BETTER

Lips or eyes? eyes

Hugs or kisses? hugs, but i love kisses too. 

Nose kisses or neck kisses? can i say both?? bc it depends. nose kisses are super pure and loving, and neck kisses are super personal and intimate 

Shorter or taller? taller ig. everyone is taller than me

Older or younger? ?? idk man

Hook up or relationship? relationship. i enjoy the feeling. hook ups just seem empty, dont like it. HAVE YOU EVER

Kissed a stranger: no?

Drank liquor: HAH yep

Lost glasses/contacts: no

Sex on first date: nope

Broken someone’s heart: yeah, we are still friends though, which is great! 

Been arrested: almost

Turned someone down: yes

Developed a crush on a friend: YES

Dated someone twice? YES

Been cheated on? yea :/

Kissed someone and regretted it? yes and no. he kissed me, and stole my first kiss basically. but it was ok i guess.

Lost someone special? sadly yes

Been depressed? yepp

Been drunk and thrown up? nope lmao

Talked to someone with the same name as you? no, they are always spelled completely different DO YOU BELIEVE…

In yourself: sometimes

Miracles: maybe? idk

Love at first sight: yes

Heaven: oof idk, not rlly..

Santa: i though this said satan oops. but still, no

Witchcraft: yes the only person im tagging is @prettyboyhands you dont hav to do it, but you can if you want <3

[daily-spiritomb]

Vi is off to one her finals today ! Hope she does well ! (My next final is week after next week ;v; today is the Hands On part- Vi

[violetclarity]

yesterday I had a woman call the store and start by saying she wasn’t sure if this should be told to a manager and she’d been shopping at our company for years (cue my stomach sinking...) but THEN she continued on to say that she wanted to compliment all of the employees at our store for doing such a great job every day when the customers behaved so badly (she said she was shocked by their behavior and would scream if she had to put up with what we do) and y’all? I wanted to cry, it was so nice. I walked around telling everyone I saw about it.

tl;dr tell people you appreciate them and be nice to retail and food service workers!

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asking for my mom’s advice on megabus scheduling while not letting her know that I’m traveling to meet strangers from the internet: Adulting

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Am I going to go into work tonight with a cough so that when someone says “oh you don’t sound so good” or “oh you’re really sick aren’t you” I can say “yeah that’s why I initially called out of work today, because I knew I would be sniffly and coughing, but then I was guilt tripped into coming in for half a shift anyway” ??

YES.

[violetclarity]

someone tell me not to impulse buy a bed today bc I’ve been thinking about getting one for a while and I’m itching for an ikea trip but I also probably shouldn’t make big purchases like that without more consideration??