Not liking sex or being very sexual doesn't make you any less masculine.
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Not liking sex or being very sexual doesn't make you any less masculine.
Being het or choosing to identify as straight doesn't make you any less ace or aro. All aces and aros are equally ace/aro and what type of attraction you do experience, if any, doesn't change that.
Not being compatible with someone you're in a relationship with is nobody's fault. It doesn't mean there isn't someone out there who is compatible with you either.
Talking about and understanding aces and aros benefits allo people as well.
Straight aroaces are superb.
Oriented and angled aroaces identity is just as valid no matter what orientation of attraction they experience and identify with. And that includes het/straight oriented and angled aroaces as well.
Sexual and romantic attraction aren't the only types of attraction that can be really intense. Aesthetic, platonic and sensual can all be really intense and overwhelming too. Remember it's OK to experience really intense attraction, no matter what kind it is.