PLEASE RANT TO ME ABOUT FUCKING REMADORA BECAUSE I'M SO MAD RIGHT NOW I CANT EVEN THINK STRAIGHT
im so mad i cant even breathe
like i said in the last ask im not exactly surprised about what happened bc jkr has a habit of downplaying problematic elements in her work ((queer representation, abusive relationships, abuse in general [with sirius black as the exception i think she hit that one spot on])) but at the same time i was like yooooooo
i really thought it would have been a much more powerful literary choice to have an unhealthy relationship like what we thought remus/tonks was as a parallel to james/lily ((which also has huge potential for being somewhat unhealthy but once again jkr just kind of swept james's flaws under the rug in favor of using the star-crossed lovers trope, and so im taking that at face value here because in order to draw a parallel i have to attempt to see the work as she sees it)). so the way jkr seems to view james/lily is as two people destined to be in love in order to produce a sort of christ figure,, and since teddy is supposed to parallel harry as the War Orphan Pt. II i thought it would be interesting for her to have r/t be a direct contrast to j/l in that they would be more affected by how war-torn their society was since yknow remus has lived through this twice now and has suffered more losses than all of the others combined and just as a side note even if you are in love and even if you are smitten and even if you are absolutely meant for each other,, high pressure situations like the middle of a fucking war are generally not good breeding grounds for happy stable relationships. even if youve the red string of fate on your side you may not ((probably will not)) work out simply due to the stress and element of distrust etc etc
i honestly think we have to chalk it up to a flaw in jkrs worldview and a weakness in her writing ability. but then again this is characteristic of her characters' romances so we all know this drill already
im going to save my anger over the lack of a queer narrative for another post because this is getting long
















