My friend has been acting really weird lately. She's been hanging out with her ex-best friend who treated her like crap, it bothers me not only because I feel like we're closer than they are. She's also been making up excuses when she won't hang out or sleep over and has used the ‘oh I feel sick’ gimmick the last four times I've asked her. Not to mention that all of those times she said she could come until the day of. I'm concerned. I keep telling her I'm here for her, but she doesn't open up.
ive been through this before, and honestly it sucks. im sorry you have to too :/ first i would try and confront her about it because communication is v important in a relationship, even if you feel you’re really close with her. id say something along the lines of “I’ve noticed that lately when i ask to hang out you always say you’re sick or you’re busy, and it really hurts my feelings. i feel as if you don’t want to hang out with me or tell me things as much anymore and i was wondering if it was something i did or what’s going on?” etc etc. communication and confrontation, even though it’s very hard to do, is needed. try and talk to her about it and if it doesn’t work out (she takes it badly, or she denies it), then i would maybe start to distance yourself from her and find another friend because its not fair to you to go through this pain of feeling rejected, because you’re lovely and no one deserves that!! you deserve someone who loves to talk to you and be around you. moving on is always so hard— i’ve had to do it tons of times, but i swear you’ll come out on top. ilysm and i hope this helped ^.^
