tbh honey i know it sounds 'extreme' but you might think about reporting something like that through whatever office your institution has (look to see if there's a title IX office for ex.). i work at a univ and the people who work on discrimination always beg students to report just so there is at least documentation. if she is making you uncomfortable to the point where you were worried about her following you home, that possibly harrassment and you don't deserve that. something to think about.
yea i will seriously think about it esp if the situation gets worse like i haven’t seen her anywhere near where i live since before the christmas holidays which is a relief and i tried my best to stay away from her last semester which is easy to do in a lecture but in a seminar its so much harder, ur a smaller group and ur supposed to interact so i will ask to either be moved or for her to be moved if it gets to that point and also, weirdly, another girl in my group has been having the SAME issue with her??? we somehow ended up talking about it and realised we were talking about the same girl and this girl i was talking to is a lesbian and she was also rlly uncomfortable and so i’m going to talk to her to see if she’s been having any more trouble and if she has i’m going to suggest to her that we go together to file a report or something but thank u so much for ur message💗










