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i understand. i want to reclaim the word but i dont know how to go about it ina way that doesnt reinforce its old use. with time i guess
yeah... idk what it is about the word that makes it so hard to reclaim. maybe its the rampant self-hatred and internalized homophobia associate with our community that makes it hard to differentiate when its usage is an attempt to scorn heteronormality and when it conforms to it and further hurts us y'know












