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Quick question, what the hell happened to Grace? Because she left the face of the earth and never saw her appear in any of his posts after 2014? Was it ever publicly stated how they met?

Who is Grace?

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Idk if this blog is still running, but I found somewhere that Johnny and Lexus used to date?

Also do you know when Nick and Lexus started dating?

I don’t believe Lexus and Johnny ever dated but I do believe they hooked up because of things Johnny had said in the past around the time that Nick left Get Scared and was getting asked questions on either formspring or ask.am as well as making tweets on his Twitter account.

However, I do know that Nick cheated on his then girlfriend Jamie with Lexus. The reason we know this is because Jamie shared this on her Twitter account which had caused an uproar among fans.

Overall, Lexus took pictures with a lot of band guys though it doesn’t equate to her hooking up or dating them it can be speculated that she did which is probably what Lexus wanted since it’s a strategic way to stay relevant within the scene at the time.

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Hello! I'm the same anon as last time

If we think about the time on 2008 previously to their dating Lexus WAS 17 as she met Max, could be that she turned 18 right before they started dating, that was my point.

I didn't mean to say Ronnie targetted her for her age, yes he did bc she was Max's ex, but there's also a kinda weird stickam where Ronnie and Lexus talked for the first time. (Title is

Ronnie Radke Live Stickam FIRST TIME LIVE OUT OF JAIL - part 7) Time stamp I'm unsure but it's around 6 minutes in, where Ronnie basically asks Lexus for her age and she says 19. He starts rambling while saying ''Barely legal, barely legal'' and says something that I can't quite put together along the lines of ''Can you take my virginity'' or ''Do you still have your virginity''. It's quite awkward, and even if Lexus put herself out because of previous trauma like you said, I thin RR behaved like a weirdo in that video, even if he said he was ''joking''.

I also think due to her dating Max when she wasn't legally allowed to drink, she had developed her alcoholism previously, but Max was one of the people who embraced that addiction buying her alcohol, even if he was an addict himself and didn't know better.

Allegedly, there are some fans who are saying that Lexus was 17 years old which may be factual since they met off MySpace and were talking before dating though there’s a possibility that they went more public with their relationship once she was 18 years old. I definitely agree with you Anon, that regardless if Lexus was 17 years old or 18 years old, it doesn’t paint Max in a good light due to his age at the time.

As for Lexus’ alcoholism, I do believe she was already participating in underage drinking, however it doesn’t excuse Max’s actions of him further enabling Lexus Amanda’s dependence of alcohol when Max, himself was buying her alcohol (theres a YouTube video of them together where Lexus and Max are shopping for alcohol). I can definitely agree with Anon, that maybe Max didn’t realize his actions and behavior due to his own addiction and struggle with his own addiction; there was a certain point of clarity for Max that they needed to get sober-in which Max has talked about them trying to get sober which also correlates to a lot of statements or answers to questions on his formspring about his past relationship with Lexus Amanda. I’m not excusing either one of them, rather explaining that their addictions and struggle with sobriety played a huge part in the toxic behavior that was going on in their relationship at the time.

Now about Ronnie Radke’s Live Stickam stream after he got released from jail, I do recall hearing from a friend that he was being very weird towards Lexus Amanda but I never knew to what extent. Even if he was “joking” it was in poor taste since looking back now, the “jokes” he made didn’t age well and is quite disturbing when you think about it. Like if we had to put ourselves in Lexus’ shoes being 19 year old young woman who’s talking to a 28 year old man who’s asking questions like “Do you still have your virginity?” or “Can you take my virginity?” Is very awkward and adding the comment he made “Barely legal” is quite disturbing, especially since we know that they ended up hooking up. Even if we didn’t know about them hooking up, or if some of us didn’t watch that stream, we can definitely come to the conclusion that theres a tone to that specific wording/phrase “barely legal”.

Overall, Max and Ronnie are both problematic in their own ways, due to them both having a relationship/hook up with Lexus Amanda, who was barely legal and her frontal lobe wasn’t even fully developed at the time. In case some of you don’t know the frontal lobe isn’t fully developed until around the age of 25 or 27 years old so keep that in mind.

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Hello

I'm a firm believer a lot of the guys she dated ended up grooming her. She could put herself out as someone ''mature'' or what she called ''a psycho gf'', but looking at everything, I believe this girl was groomed since she was 15 by men who doubled her age (I believe she dated Max being a minor and Ronnie targeted her when she was 19 and him pushing 30). She became a widly young adult hated on the internet, an addict who was enabled by her boyfriends, so I do think Lexus has grown to be this way because of the trauma that whole ordeal caused.

I think none of us would know how to deal with that kind of hate. It's also disgusting the misogyny used in arguments against her, but again, the mid 2000s were wild; there were reasons to not like her but everything went around her sex/love life, aids, boyfriends, etc., looking back at the derogatory terms used against her (a 19-22 yr old) no one would grow up sane from that.

Did she put herself out and dealt with it the wrong way? Yes. But again, no one from scratch could know how to deal with that.

And I also think back then women (in general) in the scene were hated for things as simple as that while bandmen were going to stripclubs, having sex with fans (including minors) and hosting parties with prostitutes.

I'm glad you're using the blog differently now,.

Hi, I wanted to thank you for sending in your opinion, your perspective and insight on this serious topic; the mentions of grooming is talked about in this post, therefore this is the trigger warning. If that topic makes you uncomfortable please skip this post. Thank you and until next time dear follower/reader.

Trigger Warning: Grooming

From what information I could gather about Lexus and Max’s relationship is that they met and talked on MySpace before they met in person, especially since Max lived in Las Vegas, Nevada and Lexus lived in Los Angeles, California at the time.

I do believe Lexus was 18 yrs old due to the fact she talked about getting her sleeve with the doves tattooed as an outline by saving up her lunch money on her podcast, This Might Be Toxic episode 4 (Time Stamp 5:58). It was 2008 that she got her tattoo and sometime in 2008 she started to date Max.

Picture below is before she got her sleeve colored and shaded.

Also, on her podcast on the same episode (Time Stamp 8:04) Lexus talked about her home life not being good which had her moving out at 15 living with boyfriends and people she met off of MySpace at the time. She claimed to have done some couch surfing and slept in her car a lot of nights too. Though I do believe she went back home when things didn’t workout since she talked about when her parents got divorced that she moved out officially and didn’t attend her senior year due to turning 18 at the end of 11th grade and decided to dropout of high school.

Depending on Max’s birthday (December 15) he was 23yrs old (if I’m doing the math right) when he started to date Lexus; Ronnie shares the same birthday as Max and is a year older making Ronnie 24yrs old at the time. I wanted to note their ages due to the age gaps between Lexus and Max’s being 6 years as well as Lexus and Ronnie’s being 7 years which is all important information.

On June 18, 2008, Ronnie (24yrs old) violated his probation which resulted him going to jail and getting kicked out of his band, Escape the Fate. He was released on December 12, 2010 which is 3 days before his birthday (if I’m doing the math right) means he was turning 27yrs old. However, Lexus and Ronnie didn’t hook up until 2011, Lexus talked about her hooking up with Ronnie in a TikTok where she stated she was 21 years old, meaning that depending on the timeline and birthdays that Ronnie may have been 28yrs old when they hooked up.

For the record, Lexus was the one pursuing Ronnie when he got out of jail-he didn’t even pursue her, so the part about Ronnie “targeting” Lexus because of her age isn’t valid, however I do believe he possibly targeted her due to being Max’s ex-girlfriend, because of the song “Caught Like A Fly” is a diss track to Max and has the line “While God might be busy with judging your soul, I will have slept with the girl that you loved most” and at the time the girl that Max loved was Lexus Amanda. It is alleged that Lexus got with Ronnie to get back Max since she was hurt over Max ending their relationship, however there is no evidence or proof of this matter.

Now, do I believe Lexus was groomed, however I believe it was before she ever met or dated Max due to a TikTok she made back in 2023 with the caption “And that’s on trauma”.

As for the hate Lexus got around the mid 2000s, I don’t think people hated her when she first started to date Max, rather some fans really loved them together-I do believe it had to do with her behavior during their relationship and even after as well as some controversial posts on her social media platforms.

I’m not saying the hate is excused because of her behavior or the controversy surrounding her at certain points, however I do believe those factors play some part into the hate that she received at the time. (I plan to make a separate post about this topic’s details since I would like to make sure they’re labeled properly as factual or alleged). However, I do believe her asking for hate on Twitter caused a huge uptick in the hate that she also received at the time and later she flipped the script crying about it on Twitter; there’s a lot more to it which makes it a catch twenty-two because on one hand some people may feel bad for her and they’re not in the wrong for that and others may not feel bad for her because of her past actions and they’re also not in the wrong for that-in other words its very complex and not as black and white thinking as most people on the past made it out to be.

Sadly, a lot of band guys got away with a lot of shit back then but now that has changed somewhat since bands are getting called out and even cancelled or boycotted when it comes to them grooming or sexual assault especially more so when a minor is involved.

Lastly, wanted to thank you for the compliment on how the blog is ran now versus the past with previous versions of the blog. I hope to keep upholding the safe space to discuss topics relating to Lexus Amanda and Blacklisted Me.

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What’s crazy to me. I lived here a lot longer than her, and I barely know anybody or have any friends. It’s crazy how she has met all these people in the short amount of time she’s been here.

From observation, Lexus visited Nashville before moving there (not sure if it was once or a few times before the move) however, I do recall one of her friends moving there and she went to visit them.

I also believe she met some of the friends through friends and not just by random; maybe a few random encounters although I think that’s less likely the case here.

Being an adult and making friends is rough, regardless if you moved or not like it’s not as easy to do, especially if you’re not into going to clubs/bars (I personally outgrew that scene due to how mundane it became) because not everyone is into drinking nor should anyone ever feel pressured to be.

I recommend taking a class (could be from a community college, Pilates, Yoga, art, music; whatever you’re passionate about) since it gets you to meet new people and maybe you might be able to make a few friends from it. Also, you could try FB groups or events tied more to the community to help you meet new people and possibly make friends from that. I wish you luck in making friends.

Lastly, don’t compare yourself to Lexus or anyone who has moved and made new friends instantly like what we see online like snippets of video or even pictures aren’t always rainbows and butterflies-not everything is what it seems.

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Oh wow sorry!! I meant HER not his. Yes. Broadway is a nightmare!!!! It’s a total tourist trap. I’m a bartender and I refuse to even work down there. But it’s bad news anyway. During the day is a little more calm compared to at night. Broadway at night is just puke, neon, and bad country covers on repeat. Oh, I forgot the sea of white cowboy boots.

This makes so much sense how Broadway is the tourist trap. A lot of major cities have them even mine does (I won’t go into details since I don’t want to dox myself). The day and night contrasts are crazy and reminds me of when I went to Las Vegas, where the night is so lively and party atmosphere but day time definitely gives off ‘this doesn’t feel/look right’ vibes.’

Again, thank you for explaining this.

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August 6th, 2025

On Lexus’ IG Story she posted a picture of someone’s Jeep that has rubber ducks on their dashboard and instead of waiting for a reply from a follower who may be a Jeep owner that participates. She also could’ve easily Googled or search for it on TikTok, Lexus used ChatGPT which I’m not sure if many people, regardless if they folllow her or not realize the negative impact that ChatGPT and Generative A.I. has on the environment itself.

Overall, I believe she didn’t need to or have to use ChatGPT, however it makes me wonder how many more times has she used it especially when it comes to her content video ideas or even the topics of discussion for her podcast.

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Lexus Amanda’s 35th birthday on July 28, 2025

Part 3 of pictures from her IG story