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Idk if this blog is still running, but I found somewhere that Johnny and Lexus used to date?

Also do you know when Nick and Lexus started dating?

I don’t believe Lexus and Johnny ever dated but I do believe they hooked up because of things Johnny had said in the past around the time that Nick left Get Scared and was getting asked questions on either formspring or ask.am as well as making tweets on his Twitter account.

However, I do know that Nick cheated on his then girlfriend Jamie with Lexus. The reason we know this is because Jamie shared this on her Twitter account which had caused an uproar among fans.

Overall, Lexus took pictures with a lot of band guys though it doesn’t equate to her hooking up or dating them it can be speculated that she did which is probably what Lexus wanted since it’s a strategic way to stay relevant within the scene at the time.

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Hello! I'm the same anon as last time

If we think about the time on 2008 previously to their dating Lexus WAS 17 as she met Max, could be that she turned 18 right before they started dating, that was my point.

I didn't mean to say Ronnie targetted her for her age, yes he did bc she was Max's ex, but there's also a kinda weird stickam where Ronnie and Lexus talked for the first time. (Title is

Ronnie Radke Live Stickam FIRST TIME LIVE OUT OF JAIL - part 7) Time stamp I'm unsure but it's around 6 minutes in, where Ronnie basically asks Lexus for her age and she says 19. He starts rambling while saying ''Barely legal, barely legal'' and says something that I can't quite put together along the lines of ''Can you take my virginity'' or ''Do you still have your virginity''. It's quite awkward, and even if Lexus put herself out because of previous trauma like you said, I thin RR behaved like a weirdo in that video, even if he said he was ''joking''.

I also think due to her dating Max when she wasn't legally allowed to drink, she had developed her alcoholism previously, but Max was one of the people who embraced that addiction buying her alcohol, even if he was an addict himself and didn't know better.

Allegedly, there are some fans who are saying that Lexus was 17 years old which may be factual since they met off MySpace and were talking before dating though there’s a possibility that they went more public with their relationship once she was 18 years old. I definitely agree with you Anon, that regardless if Lexus was 17 years old or 18 years old, it doesn’t paint Max in a good light due to his age at the time.

As for Lexus’ alcoholism, I do believe she was already participating in underage drinking, however it doesn’t excuse Max’s actions of him further enabling Lexus Amanda’s dependence of alcohol when Max, himself was buying her alcohol (theres a YouTube video of them together where Lexus and Max are shopping for alcohol). I can definitely agree with Anon, that maybe Max didn’t realize his actions and behavior due to his own addiction and struggle with his own addiction; there was a certain point of clarity for Max that they needed to get sober-in which Max has talked about them trying to get sober which also correlates to a lot of statements or answers to questions on his formspring about his past relationship with Lexus Amanda. I’m not excusing either one of them, rather explaining that their addictions and struggle with sobriety played a huge part in the toxic behavior that was going on in their relationship at the time.

Now about Ronnie Radke’s Live Stickam stream after he got released from jail, I do recall hearing from a friend that he was being very weird towards Lexus Amanda but I never knew to what extent. Even if he was “joking” it was in poor taste since looking back now, the “jokes” he made didn’t age well and is quite disturbing when you think about it. Like if we had to put ourselves in Lexus’ shoes being 19 year old young woman who’s talking to a 28 year old man who’s asking questions like “Do you still have your virginity?” or “Can you take my virginity?” Is very awkward and adding the comment he made “Barely legal” is quite disturbing, especially since we know that they ended up hooking up. Even if we didn’t know about them hooking up, or if some of us didn’t watch that stream, we can definitely come to the conclusion that theres a tone to that specific wording/phrase “barely legal”.

Overall, Max and Ronnie are both problematic in their own ways, due to them both having a relationship/hook up with Lexus Amanda, who was barely legal and her frontal lobe wasn’t even fully developed at the time. In case some of you don’t know the frontal lobe isn’t fully developed until around the age of 25 or 27 years old so keep that in mind.

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Hello

I'm a firm believer a lot of the guys she dated ended up grooming her. She could put herself out as someone ''mature'' or what she called ''a psycho gf'', but looking at everything, I believe this girl was groomed since she was 15 by men who doubled her age (I believe she dated Max being a minor and Ronnie targeted her when she was 19 and him pushing 30). She became a widly young adult hated on the internet, an addict who was enabled by her boyfriends, so I do think Lexus has grown to be this way because of the trauma that whole ordeal caused.

I think none of us would know how to deal with that kind of hate. It's also disgusting the misogyny used in arguments against her, but again, the mid 2000s were wild; there were reasons to not like her but everything went around her sex/love life, aids, boyfriends, etc., looking back at the derogatory terms used against her (a 19-22 yr old) no one would grow up sane from that.

Did she put herself out and dealt with it the wrong way? Yes. But again, no one from scratch could know how to deal with that.

And I also think back then women (in general) in the scene were hated for things as simple as that while bandmen were going to stripclubs, having sex with fans (including minors) and hosting parties with prostitutes.

I'm glad you're using the blog differently now,.

Hi, I wanted to thank you for sending in your opinion, your perspective and insight on this serious topic; the mentions of grooming is talked about in this post, therefore this is the trigger warning. If that topic makes you uncomfortable please skip this post. Thank you and until next time dear follower/reader.

Trigger Warning: Grooming

From what information I could gather about Lexus and Max’s relationship is that they met and talked on MySpace before they met in person, especially since Max lived in Las Vegas, Nevada and Lexus lived in Los Angeles, California at the time.

I do believe Lexus was 18 yrs old due to the fact she talked about getting her sleeve with the doves tattooed as an outline by saving up her lunch money on her podcast, This Might Be Toxic episode 4 (Time Stamp 5:58). It was 2008 that she got her tattoo and sometime in 2008 she started to date Max.

Picture below is before she got her sleeve colored and shaded.

Also, on her podcast on the same episode (Time Stamp 8:04) Lexus talked about her home life not being good which had her moving out at 15 living with boyfriends and people she met off of MySpace at the time. She claimed to have done some couch surfing and slept in her car a lot of nights too. Though I do believe she went back home when things didn’t workout since she talked about when her parents got divorced that she moved out officially and didn’t attend her senior year due to turning 18 at the end of 11th grade and decided to dropout of high school.

Depending on Max’s birthday (December 15) he was 23yrs old (if I’m doing the math right) when he started to date Lexus; Ronnie shares the same birthday as Max and is a year older making Ronnie 24yrs old at the time. I wanted to note their ages due to the age gaps between Lexus and Max’s being 6 years as well as Lexus and Ronnie’s being 7 years which is all important information.

On June 18, 2008, Ronnie (24yrs old) violated his probation which resulted him going to jail and getting kicked out of his band, Escape the Fate. He was released on December 12, 2010 which is 3 days before his birthday (if I’m doing the math right) means he was turning 27yrs old. However, Lexus and Ronnie didn’t hook up until 2011, Lexus talked about her hooking up with Ronnie in a TikTok where she stated she was 21 years old, meaning that depending on the timeline and birthdays that Ronnie may have been 28yrs old when they hooked up.

For the record, Lexus was the one pursuing Ronnie when he got out of jail-he didn’t even pursue her, so the part about Ronnie “targeting” Lexus because of her age isn’t valid, however I do believe he possibly targeted her due to being Max’s ex-girlfriend, because of the song “Caught Like A Fly” is a diss track to Max and has the line “While God might be busy with judging your soul, I will have slept with the girl that you loved most” and at the time the girl that Max loved was Lexus Amanda. It is alleged that Lexus got with Ronnie to get back Max since she was hurt over Max ending their relationship, however there is no evidence or proof of this matter.

Now, do I believe Lexus was groomed, however I believe it was before she ever met or dated Max due to a TikTok she made back in 2023 with the caption “And that’s on trauma”.

As for the hate Lexus got around the mid 2000s, I don’t think people hated her when she first started to date Max, rather some fans really loved them together-I do believe it had to do with her behavior during their relationship and even after as well as some controversial posts on her social media platforms.

I’m not saying the hate is excused because of her behavior or the controversy surrounding her at certain points, however I do believe those factors play some part into the hate that she received at the time. (I plan to make a separate post about this topic’s details since I would like to make sure they’re labeled properly as factual or alleged). However, I do believe her asking for hate on Twitter caused a huge uptick in the hate that she also received at the time and later she flipped the script crying about it on Twitter; there’s a lot more to it which makes it a catch twenty-two because on one hand some people may feel bad for her and they’re not in the wrong for that and others may not feel bad for her because of her past actions and they’re also not in the wrong for that-in other words its very complex and not as black and white thinking as most people on the past made it out to be.

Sadly, a lot of band guys got away with a lot of shit back then but now that has changed somewhat since bands are getting called out and even cancelled or boycotted when it comes to them grooming or sexual assault especially more so when a minor is involved.

Lastly, wanted to thank you for the compliment on how the blog is ran now versus the past with previous versions of the blog. I hope to keep upholding the safe space to discuss topics relating to Lexus Amanda and Blacklisted Me.

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What’s crazy to me. I lived here a lot longer than her, and I barely know anybody or have any friends. It’s crazy how she has met all these people in the short amount of time she’s been here.

From observation, Lexus visited Nashville before moving there (not sure if it was once or a few times before the move) however, I do recall one of her friends moving there and she went to visit them.

I also believe she met some of the friends through friends and not just by random; maybe a few random encounters although I think that’s less likely the case here.

Being an adult and making friends is rough, regardless if you moved or not like it’s not as easy to do, especially if you’re not into going to clubs/bars (I personally outgrew that scene due to how mundane it became) because not everyone is into drinking nor should anyone ever feel pressured to be.

I recommend taking a class (could be from a community college, Pilates, Yoga, art, music; whatever you’re passionate about) since it gets you to meet new people and maybe you might be able to make a few friends from it. Also, you could try FB groups or events tied more to the community to help you meet new people and possibly make friends from that. I wish you luck in making friends.

Lastly, don’t compare yourself to Lexus or anyone who has moved and made new friends instantly like what we see online like snippets of video or even pictures aren’t always rainbows and butterflies-not everything is what it seems.

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Oh wow sorry!! I meant HER not his. Yes. Broadway is a nightmare!!!! It’s a total tourist trap. I’m a bartender and I refuse to even work down there. But it’s bad news anyway. During the day is a little more calm compared to at night. Broadway at night is just puke, neon, and bad country covers on repeat. Oh, I forgot the sea of white cowboy boots.

This makes so much sense how Broadway is the tourist trap. A lot of major cities have them even mine does (I won’t go into details since I don’t want to dox myself). The day and night contrasts are crazy and reminds me of when I went to Las Vegas, where the night is so lively and party atmosphere but day time definitely gives off ‘this doesn’t feel/look right’ vibes.’

Again, thank you for explaining this.

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August 6th, 2025

On Lexus’ IG Story she posted a picture of someone’s Jeep that has rubber ducks on their dashboard and instead of waiting for a reply from a follower who may be a Jeep owner that participates. She also could’ve easily Googled or search for it on TikTok, Lexus used ChatGPT which I’m not sure if many people, regardless if they folllow her or not realize the negative impact that ChatGPT and Generative A.I. has on the environment itself.

Overall, I believe she didn’t need to or have to use ChatGPT, however it makes me wonder how many more times has she used it especially when it comes to her content video ideas or even the topics of discussion for her podcast.

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Lexus Amanda’s 35th birthday on July 28, 2025

Part 3 of pictures from her IG story

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Lexus Amanda’s 35th birthday on July 28th, 2025

Part 2 of pictures from her IG story

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Lexus Amanda’s 35th birthday on July 28th, 2025

Part 1 of pictures from her IG story

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July 23, 2025

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So I think it’s really funny how when you watch his videos she always talks about her age. The age is who she’s at now. And how you shouldn’t wear this or you shouldn’t do this because you’re this age. She’s one of those people I’ve always hated. I think you should do whatever makes you happy no matter your age. I don’t know why she does that. Also, I’ve seen her Instagram videos and she goes to the bars on Broadway. I live in Nashville and anybody that lives in Nashville doesn’t go to Broadway.

Honestly, I’m not sure which guy you’re talking about here, however I do think her talking about her current age of 35 years old when she barely turned that old on Monday is very telling in itself.

Also, it’s very weird for her to be telling people “don’t do this” and “don’t wear that” because of your age. I personally believe if someone isn’t harming themselves or anyone else that it’s okay to do as you please. Like people shouldn’t have to change themselves (as a person, lifestyle, interests, etc) to fit into a cookie cutter mold of a narrative that others want you to be. Life is way too short to not be authentic. More so, I find it weird due to her wanting to be a content creator yet the content she makes is more of an influencer since I know personally I can’t relate to it. Again, just my opinion.

I don’t live in Tennessee, yet I’m curious to know since you live in Nashville and don’t go to the Broadway, and that most Nashville natives don’t go there is it more of a tourist attraction or something else completely? -I hope you get back to me on that.

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This isn’t an ask, just an observation. As an elder emo, I obviously heard about Lexus Amanda back in the day. What does she do career wise? I saw her on tik tok doing this “emo lore” cuz I’m guessing she’ll get paid for views.

Lexus Amanda has had a somewhat unconventional career path. This is a general overview of her career over the years: Lexus has talked about dropping out of high school, likely got her G.E.D. since she ended up attending Paul Mitchell and dropped out, however ended up going back and getting her cosmetology license. If I recall correctly, I believe she even worked at a makeup counter for MAC Cosmetics at one point too. She was on the MTV show, Disaster Date (Season 4 Episode 18) and appeared in a few music videos such as "This War Is Ours" by Escape the Fate (when she dated Max), "Just One Gun" by Madlife, "Smile" by Avril Lavigne, as well as being featured in the song "I Need You" by Davey Suicide. As for her music career, she started Blacklisted Me which blew up to her song "Reprobate Romance" music video which she later confirmed on her TikTok that the song is about Ronnie Radke. She did record more music though some she never released which is unsure as to why since a lot of her fans were and still are anticipating. While on break from music she focused more on being a hairdresser, makeup artist, and photographer. Lexus even got to work with her best friend at the time, Laney Chantal with SFX makeup on Stargate Origins as well as being a makeup artist on set for Ironfist Clothing photo shoot. During her relationship with Pasquale, Lexus was living and commenting to Las Vegas and Malibu; for awhile she wasn't working and even shared on her IG story how she may become a realtor since she was showing some interest in it, however ended up creating Volta Beauty, a beauty bar for Insomniac events where she was the Creative Director; she was very involved in the hiring and training processes as well as creating content for Volta.

After her breakup with Pasquale, she moved to Nashville and quietly left Volta, no longer being their Creative Director, however seems to be focusing more on her recent ventures such as starting her podcast, This Might Be Toxic, posting lifestyle content, creating her personal brand, as well as creating her own line of candles that will soon go for sale. As for the TikTok's about her "Emo Lore" it's likely part of her effort to stay active as a content creator and monetize engagement which I do think is strategic since she's about to launch her candles sometime in August. Lastly, she did release a couple of new songs, "Don't Be Afraid" featuring Nicholas Matthews and "Too Fxcked Up 4 Luv" as well as a preview for "Love Letter". I do believe she may be making more music in the near future, we will have to wait and see on that. In conclusion, Lexus has an extensive wrap sheet when it comes to her career since she's pivoted through various roles.

Disclaimer: The information shared in this response is based on publicly available content, past interviews, social media posts, and professional credits associated with Lexus Amanda over the years. It is not intended to defame, misrepresent, or speculate beyond what is publicly accessible. If any part of this contains inaccuracies or needs clarification, I’m open to updating it respectfully.

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Dear Blog Owner,

This letter serves as a formal cease and desist demand regarding your continued and targeted harassment, defamatory statements, and invasion of privacy against me through the content published on your Tumblr blog.

You have repeatedly published harmful, false, and malicious content about me, including but not limited to:

Spreading defamatory statements

Making sexually explicit and inappropriate references

Posting misleading, exaggerated, or false information intended to damage my personal and professional reputation

Harassing and targeting me over an extended period of time

This behavior constitutes clear violations of Tumblr’s Community Guidelines, and may also be in violation of applicable civil and criminal laws relating to harassment, defamation, cyberbullying, and emotional distress.

You are hereby directed to immediately:

Remove all posts, comments, and content referencing or targeting me in any way

Cease and desist from any further publication of defamatory, harassing, or invasive content

Refrain from contacting me directly or indirectly through any medium

If you fail to comply with this demand within 72 hours, I will pursue all available legal remedies, including but not limited to:

Filing formal complaints with Tumblr Trust & Safety

Pursuing civil action for defamation, harassment, and emotional distress

Subpoenaing Tumblr for user information to pursue legal claims

Seeking a court-issued restraining order or injunction

This letter is not a complete statement of my rights, and nothing herein shall be construed as a waiver of any legal remedies available to me. I strongly urge you to take this matter seriously and act accordingly.

Sincerely,

Alexis Joice

Recently, this blog received a message — written in the style of a cease and desist — alleging that the content shared here constitutes targeted harassment, defamation, and invasion of privacy. The sender threatened potential legal action and subpoenas unless all references to Lexus Amanda were removed within 72 hours.

First and foremost: It is unclear whether this message was sent by Lexus Amanda herself, as it did not come from a verified or official blog or account associated with her. Given this, there is a strong possibility that it was sent by someone impersonating her.

Regardless of who sent it, I want to make the following clear:

This blog exists to document and discuss the public content and behavior of Lexus Amanda — a public figure, artist, and online personality. Public figures are open to critique, commentary, and opinion under both fair use and free speech protections, especially when the material in question was shared publicly on platforms like Twitter, Tumblr, and Instagram.

I do not condone harassment, doxing, or threats, and I actively avoid publishing any private details about Lexus Amanda, her family, or personal life. I’ve also clearly stated that no one should bully or harass her or anyone connected to her — including ex-bandmates, former friends, or collaborators.

Some posts are archival, others are commentary, and where speculation is involved, I try to clearly label it as such. If there’s ever anything that turns out to be factually inaccurate or strays too far from respectful commentary into potential harm, I’m completely open to editing or removing that content.

This blog was created to be a safe space for fans, critics, and observers — especially those who have followed Lexus’s career and experienced confusion, disappointment, or concern over her public actions. I do my best to answer questions with factual context, and I allow submissions that follow Tumblr’s guidelines and stay within reasonable bounds.

Expressing criticism of a public figure’s statements, choices, or behavior is not the same as harassment — particularly when it’s based on content they’ve made public themselves. I will not be silenced by vague legal threats or attempts to label public discourse as abuse.

If the real Lexus Amanda wishes to reach out respectfully and in good faith to clarify misinformation, I’m more than willing to listen. Until then, this blog will remain open and in compliance with Tumblr's Terms of Service.

This post is made in the interest of transparency. If you believe a post contains a factual error or crosses a line, feel free to respectfully reach out. I’m always open to good-faith dialogue or corrections.

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It’s kinda funny how she’s always posting about fake friends and her old life and how they all snakes like everyone else was the problem… but honestly she might be the shadiest one. That whole victim act just makes it clear she hasn’t grown much. Probs why she had to move

like she’s always running from her problems. We seen this pattern before. you think at 35 shed be different, never taking responsibility

She’s 35 now, and it’s a bit surprising to still see her calling old friends “fake” on social media — it gives off middle school energy. It makes me wonder whether she’s really grown from past issues or if the “growth” she shows online is just for image.

From what I’ve seen and from others' accounts, there’s a pattern where friendships seem to fall apart quickly. Some followers have speculated she uses people or distances herself when things get hard — though of course, only those involved know the full story.

One anonymous submission, allegedly from a former friend, claimed she moved out of L.A. to escape personal issues. That hasn’t been confirmed, but the idea of running from problems has come up before from multiple perspectives.

Now she’s leaning into a country aesthetic — even briefly trying out a Southern accent, according to some fans. Maybe it’s part of a new phase. I’m curious to see where this version of her goes.

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Lexus Amanda & Philip Kross

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I don’t get the hype or why ppl still care what she’s up to… she’s a narcissist. The irony behind her podcast name is hilarious, toxic… is being nice, shes a nasty, trashy, board line evil person. All the “healthy grl” shit she’s posting is fake AF!

I don’t get the hype behind her either since she lies so much but I do think she’s a bit entertaining at times-she became a bit boring but hey what do we expect when Lexus has put on an act for so long that there’s going to be cracks and holes in her persona since she doesn’t know who she is as a person since she never grew up or gone through much growth. I do think a lot of the “growth” a lot of us were seeing when she dated Pasquale wasn’t real but rather fabricated to gain more of a following. After all, she didn’t gain her following organically or on her own.

Also, I agree with you that she’s a narcissist; a few of her former friends have submitted anonymously that she’s not a good person and I do believe them on that because of their own personal experiences with her. As for the healthy girl content it just seems off like I wish I had a better way to word it but it definitely screams fake since I listened to a few podcast episodes which she talked about getting Botox done which may explained why she looked a bit bloated in the face since her face usually looks a bit slim. However, I don’t think she needed the Botox but that’s just me-I do hope that she will be transparent about the Botox and any other cosmetic works she may get done in the future since I haven’t seen her say anything about it in her other content and she has a huge following which can be concerning if they’re not listening to her podcast (yes, I do think the name is ironic considering her past behavior with her ex boyfriends).

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So I did have an ask and for some reason I thought I saved it to the drafts since I wanted to see if I could find the photos relating to the post to add before adding to queue but I'm not seeing it in my drafts, so it's possible that Tumblr ask may have gotten lost or deleted. I do apologize for that-however, I was actually about to make a post about your ask on if Danny Worsnop and Lexus Amanda hooked up since they were hanging out a lot around 2013 and yes there are some pictures of them together but I only found a picture of them together so I’m going to share that here. As for the hooking up I don’t think they did but it is possible since Lexus was a separated from Nick by that time, after filing for divorce she was hooking up with a bunch of guys that a lot of her fans, non-fans, even the haters noticed that Lexus went back to her old ways and she was no longer in her Christian phase (thank God).

However, I believe there’s a picture of Lexus and Danny with a bong if I’m not mistaken (I haven’t found it) and when Lexus did get asked if she smokes weed, she claimed she doesn’t, although there is a picture of her hitting a bowl-well trying to light up the glass pipe which someone who ran a Lexus Amanda fan blog at the time, pointed out how she wasn’t doing it right so that may backup her claim of not smoking weed, though there are other ways to smoke weed so maybe she wasn’t familiar with the glass pipe.