@alexisrambles replied to your post:I now remember why I don’t usually hang out with...
tbh that happens a LOT with my friends and I’m very very tired of it.
I just.... Like they asked me a couple months ago if I was single because their roommate is super shy and they think we’d be an awesome match. And like.... I’d just been dumped. I wasn’t looking for a relationship. I told them that. The subject then got dropped.
Today we hung out for the first time in like a year or something. And the first thing they brought up was the very same roommate and how they thought he and I would make a great match. And I told them I was enjoying being single and not looking for anything romantic with anyone right now.
And they just would not stop going on about him. About what a great match we’d be. About how even if nothing romantic comes from it we’d make such great friends. About how apparently he has a bit of a crush on me because of what this friend has said. And it’s like..... Look I get that you think we’d be great together. I would have even been okay with you introducing us originally. But you keep going on about it and you keep pushing the subject.
And that just makes me so uncomfortable. Like I’m sure this guy is super nice and all but now I just don’t even want to meet him because this person trying to play matchmaker is being so.... gross about it.