Sexism in the CTFXC and other thoughts
So Charles Trippy has officially admitted to dating "squiggles" and linked her public instagram. He has officially moved on. Which does not affect me in any manner, so why should I care? I'm human. Humans have opinions on everything. So my opinion is mine and I should be allowed to have it. I am not going to bully charles or "squiggles" by posting on his social media sites.
So…Here we go.
Yeah, it sucks that Alli and Charles could not make it work. We live in a society in which 50% of marriages end in divorce. It's sad, but that is life. I understand it. Once I was over the shock. I understood.
What I didn't understand was the negative comments addressed to Alli. Why was that necessary? It takes two people to argue. People accused her of cheating and called her horrid names.
Charles has publicly moved on. Yes, divorce papers have been filed. They are emotionally/physically separated, but by law they are still married. People have flocked Charles with happy thoughts and congratulations of having found someone. (less than a month of announcing his separation, weird). What ever the timeline of the events, I am not going to judge on the fidelity of Charles. He is an adult capable of making his own decisions. It seems if Alli had announced a new relationship so soon, people would have gone crazy with the negativity.
I can't help but acknowledge that when Kim Kardashian was in the process of divorcing her husband and began dating Kanye West people began slut shamming her. I'm not a Kardashian fan, but isn't that the same thing Charles did? And possibly a lot faster? They both film and edit their lives for their audiences, why did they receive different critics?(don't do that whole she has a sex tape crap to justify your thoughts.)
If i felt differently from Kim and Charles for the actions they took after their marriage separation, i would be a hypocrite.
So I stand by what I think.
1) It's way too soon to move on. Emotionally and physically.
2) Yes, they may be seperated but by law they are still married. Why is that important? Well for example, if Alli were to date someone and become impregnated, the child would have legally have to have Charles last name until changed by the courts & proved paternity. So by law, until they are divorced, wouldn't it be considered an affair? He is still legally married
3)Because it's Charles, everything is great and congrats for finding someone who loves you blah blah Before it was I hate you Alli
4)Why was it so easy to turn on Alli?
5) Timeline that Squiggles is off. Talking to someone else is an emotional affair, as one tends to see more flaws in the relationship and a prize that can be found at the end (meaning less motivation to attempt to work it out).
6) Charles Trippy pulled a Kim Kardashian.
7)I'm done with Charles. I'm glad he's happy and that Alli is happy. My unsubscription will surely be unnoticed, but I didn't do it to be noticed by Charles. I did it for me.
Peace out CTFXC!
