i hate that there's no better terms (that im aware of) for friends you have sex with . like generally that just feels kinda shitty . friends with benefits has weird implications, fuck buddy (at risk of sounding like a prude) feels a bit crass and doesn't encompass the Care in the friendship... situationship somewhat implies romantic intent... i suppose QPR works?
i guess it probably doesn't matter all that much, considering most people would probably go "well why do you need people to know that someone is a friend you have sex with?" but... it just kinda sucks. i guess. that there's no term that encompasses the care and trust there. like yeah it's sexual but it takes trust.
labels aren't important to everyone, but personally it kinda bothers me that i'll be forced to reduce a meaningful friendship to something like fuckbuddy.










