#alloaro

[b3ndy]

I ended a relationship I had for 4 years recently. Few days ago. Today I helped someone jack off. and like. it's the most free I've felt in such a long time for some reason.

I used to be busy with like 3 or 4 people before a few years back. but as the relationship with one of them developed they asked for me to remain monogamous and so I compromised. The relationship went on for 3 more years until this month. They had romantic feelings for me and wanted a more romantic style relationship while I did not and we kept trying to compromise. In the end I couldn't pretend anymore and admitted I could never meet their needs.

But now that I'm out of it I don't need to me monogamous anymore. And one of the friends I used to get busy with online, I talk to still. And she did stuff and talked about it and I helped her through it. By the end I got really emotional and I felt so oddly free. I felt like a tiger trapped in a human house suddenly get released into an enclosure made just for it. Plants and pool and everything else I need to meet my natural behaviours and welfare needs. It just felt so good even if I didn't do anything with myself while assisting my friend. And I get to just. Remain friends ? With her ? I have no obligation to Only stay with her. Or hide my weird nonromantic love for a fictional character. I don't need to fulfill any other needs for her or I'm expected to marry or do pda with her. And realise and feeling all of that I just. I feel so free. I feel so good. I feel closer to myself.

This is what I need and want. I want to please people and myself sexually and remain friends despite being sweet in that way. And that's entirely fine and acceptable. I'm allowed to do that now. I always was. I was just... trapped because we both refused to acknowledge I can't change. And I can't provide romance to anyone. I just feel so free and so thankful. I love life.

I love being alloaro and I will never let anyone else undermine or disrespect my identity again. I won't do it myself either. I'm a whore and I'm damn proud of it. I know my fictional wife would be happy for me too. Fuck yeah. I love life. I love sex. Happy Pride Month and never let any form of love prevent you from being yourself.

[pupsys]

do u ever get too sad or icked to use the label butch bcuz ur femme was so sexist to u and ruined ur life fr

this might sound even more weird but my alloaro label feels similarly like it’s not nearly as fun anymore to ID as it even though I felt so insanely confident about it before

even just like, arospec as a whole sadly so sadly

I really loved those labels

[sorrynoideasforcoolnickname]

Shout out to all the homosexual aroallo folks, who are romance repulsed, but still want to have sex. No, you aren't "abusive". No, you don't "actually have internalised homophobia". You engage in the activity you find appealing, you shouldn't force yourself to loOoOoOove someone, just because some bitch told you that you should. No, that one movie and that one song weren't about you. If your partner agreed to this kind of relationships, but now they're unsatisfied and make it seem like they are the victim, it's them being a bad person.

Shout out to all the straight aroallo men, who are romance repulsed, but still want to have sex. No, you aren't "misogynistic" for loving to fuck a woman, but not loving her romantically, if you agreed on this type of relationships. It's them being misogynistic! Like, why the fuck to they think an adult woman deliberately agreeing on a specific type of relationship is not enough?

Shout out to all the straighr aroallo women, who are romance repulsed, but still want to have sex. No, you aren't "whores". And even if you are, that doesn't make you a bad person. No, you aren't "just afraid of men". You're fine.

Shout out to all the nonbinary aroallo people, who are romance repulsed, but still want to have sex. You are great. Idk what else to say. Don't listen to haters.

Shout out to all the romance repulsed but sex favorable people. We are normal, we are great, we are not broken. I love you guys

[galleria-stims]

Alloaro Himiko icons for @cannimumsable - pride day 7 || See my event list here!

[dykeofthedirt]

Eliot Spencer pride icons! I headcanon him as arospec bisexual.

Come on over to my askbox if you want to request an edit, talk about aro eliot, or just chat 💚

[friendforthefucking]

Happy Aromantic Visibility Day 💚🩶🖤🍍

Happy Aromantic Visibility Day especially those who are Alloaro/Allosexual and Aro-spec who are so underrepresented in media and overlooked in discussions of Aromantic representation. Also Happy Aromantic Visibility Day to those who like me are continually questioning and/or unsure of their romantic orientation especially those of us who are also allosexual and find that to be a barrier in figuring out their romantic orientation. Today is a celebration of all Aromantic people but please keep in mind those of us who are most overlooked in discussions of Aromantic visibility/representation/struggles/etc.

Also on a related note we need to end the culture of demonizing casual, platonic, or otherwise consensual but non-normative sexual and intimate relationships.

Love to all aros 🫶🍍🖤🩶💚

[aro-sora]

Burning

[alloaro Ventus, nonromantic attraction]

Ven was supposed to be cheering for Aqua, but at some point he’d stopped paying attention to the fight itself.

The heat rising in his stomach wasn’t from the sun overhead or the Fire spells cast between opponents, but from the sight of Riku’s very shirtless and very muscular body. Freckles and scars decorated his skin.

Ven couldn’t help himself. He stared.

“What’s got you so red?” Vanitas demanded.

Ven nearly jumped out of his skin. “W-what do you mean?”

“Your face looks like a tomato.”

Vanitas’s observation only increased the deep flush on Ven’s face. He shoved Vanitas away.

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Arc of an Arrow 11/?

@nonacearo-week

[6piecesofsalami]

i’m thinking about last year when i had no will or energy to hang out with anyone except for 1 guy, and my ex bf would get sad and upset that we didn’t hang out very much and that i was hanging out with that 1 guy more than him. but i think that 1 guy is actually my other half and as close to a soul mate as i’ll ever get.

it was hard to have to tell my boyfriend that its easier to hangout with one of my friends than him but sometimes it’s like that. i can’t believe he didn’t believe that i was arospec.

shoutout friendship