When your wife sends you a tiktoker that is able to explain why AOT/SNK is shitty way better than you can. While he is not saying you can't be a fan/enjoyer/etc. I am here to tell you that yes it is shitty for you to support, defend, and consume AOT/SNK content. Because the bottom line is that it IS antisemitic rhetoric that is harmful the Jewish people (aka my partner's family).
I don't care if you unfollow me. I care more about my family than I do a following on tumblr. I'm in the slow process of unfollowing anyone who shares AOT/SNK content. New medication and a spiritual awakening has given me the clarity to set better boundaries. I am no longer joining servers or following people that support Isayama.