so I’m just here to ask for advice because this is a recurring thing, and not a vent for the most part.
1) my mom does this thing where she signs me up for costume/cosplay based events and jobs or internships and sows everyone my cosplays…
don’t get me wrong I appreciate that she’s proud and I do want to get into a job regarding costume design. The problem is she never tells me when she’s doing this! It’s happened so many times and I’ve been begging her to let me know beforehand and it’s really just starting to get on my nerves and start stressing because of how unexpected it is! Mainly because I don’t always want to do it.
how do I get her to tell me or just ask permission before she signs me up for shit?… she’s trying to get me into the costume design for a play at my sibling’s school.
2) this one if more of a vent but I still want advice, that’s why I’m positing it on main. So my dad is not someone I’m comfortable being around… like at all! Recently he’s been adding so much stress to my back and just picking on me for the fun of it (I didn’t do anything wrong either!) it’s really tiring and I just want him to stop. I’m not comfortable talking to him either.. I get mad often because I have trouble controlling emotions and I cry, raise my voice, etc. and it embarrasses me a lot! He just yells at me even if I’m happy and joking around.
how do I get more comfortable around him and open up to him without getting either of us mad either?
Thank you so much, advice would be appreciated!!/nf
Edit: I’m done with school but I don’t want to go home and idk what to do, I’m freaking out because I don’t want to see my dad, I know for a fact he’s just gonna bullshit me and I just need help…