#advice needed

[localairport]

So after a night of horrible coughing and gagging noises, when we let the planes out of the hangar this morning we found this:

Does it look important? Should we tell a vet?

[krisrisk]

friends and strangers I need your help

this might sound crazy, but I have looked through youtube and found not a single video on

How to look "cute" while in burnout or depression

What I mean is: how can I make myself look and feel a bit better when I don't even have the energy to sweep the floors and go for a walk

So, I'm calling on the army of my fellow chronically ill, burnt out and depressed lovelies to please help me out here. Because I really don't know where to start apart from "wash my hair". And the whole level of "how to contour" is waaaaaay too high for me (not just right now).

I'm audhd and there are just a few things that I don't do even when I'm not as bad as right now;

the only jewelry I wear are small studs as earrings or for my nose piercing

I do not do lipstick for sensroy reasons

I don't use actual "make up" like foundation and things for sensory and skin care reasons

I love my hair the most about me

I have a very high up undercut going around and the top of my hair is long (a little over shoulder length)

I am fat, old and tired, possibly sick. Sounds mean, is meant neutral; my face is very round with a double chin, eyebags, and showing signs of my age (aka starting to get the bulldog look)

I just don't know what to do. Do I put on Mascara? Do I have to remove that before going to bed? What kind of eyeliner-line can I put on? (I've been strongly advised to not do the black line anymore because it will make me look older and my eyes look smaller?)

Can any of the beautiful women who battles these things regularly help me feeling a little more cute, less "ugly tired old hag"? Please?

[chiikawagirll]

genuinely, write what you want..

but why are you writing incest?? I don't understand? you can have kinks, you can have fetishes.. but incest??

there's one user (blocked now, js bc I don't want to see that) who I've now seen TWO incest fics for two different characters and I just.. dont understand..?? like, I get people have dark romance interests. but I literally never thought I would come across a day where you genuinely write incest smut, not as a request, because you like it. Is this normal? is it a common writing prompt? and also, I wasn't even on a smut tag when I came across it.. js the regular x reader tag.

can someone tell me if I'm being sensitive or if this is genuinely an odd thing?? I don't mean to sound mean, but I just am confused. Because, to me, I think of incest on the same level of like pedophilia. and it's js something I didn't think you wrote about, yk

[balkanradfem]

Ok so I'd like advice from someone smarter than me. Let's say I'm theoretically, looking at an old abandoned house in the middle of nowhere, considering maybe getting it. What would I have to watch out for?

I only know I need to make sure foundations aren't cracked because if they are, the whole house is going to collapse. Do I worry if there's lots of mold? If there's a cockroach or a termite infestation? If some of the windows are not there?

What would you say are red flags I shouldn't ignore.

[pergu]

i'm so done with rendering i'm gonna go play roblox 😡😡😡

i lost my son in the krita app 😢

[ass-sassafras]

The only person I'm close to irl is my sister, and even that is sporadic due to her health issues and the fact that she's married. If I pose this question to her, I know her answer will be something related to her belief in God which I've tried before and it hasn't helped.

So I'm asking my friends on Tumblr. What gives your life meaning? Why does everyone keep getting up every day and doing stuff, moving forward, making plans, etc? This is something i struggle with all the time. How do I stop feeling like nothing matters?

[robotmechagirl]

Y'all I need advice because my daughter is losing her housing, can't stay at the local shelter anymore, and I'm crashing with a friend of mine in a studio apartment, where I'm only here under my friend's good graces. Please, I'm so tired and I just want things to be okay ToT