#ambsimp

[pupzlovez]

Hey just an unfriendly reminder to fuck off of my page if that yer a "man hater" or look down on guys. "joke" or not. Thats your problem but dont drag such negativity into my blog. i always was, and always will be a safe space for men or masculine aligned individuals and i wont accept your bullshit. Block me or back the fuck off.

[pupzlovez]

!! Looky pls !! importantzz(ish?) !!

helbo, guys !! i hope that yer okay. As of rn, my dms are strictly closed. both to moots and anyone else, please do not expect a response anytime soon if that you still choose to. if that you wish to dm me on Instagram or discord(given you may have them) please note that theres a high chance that i wont respond for awhile there either, after tonight. i will still very much be active on here ! but not socially. thank you for understanding. I hope that ye all have a nice night.x<33 !!

[pupzlovez]

!! read pls !!

hi, guys. Im sorry but ive turned off my anons. I dont plan on turning them back on, at least not anytime soon due to personal reasons. Im sorry to my sweet anons who were nice to talk to however.

[pupzlovez]

do u care if boys vent in ur askbox? /lh

ahh not at all !! as long as that ye use any needed CWs/TWs 'n lemme know if that you want it posted or not for a response, im always happy to listen. i try to make it clear that my dms/asks are always open. i, however, am not a professional. And cannot provide physical safety, but i will always listen and/or try my best to give advice. i hope that yer all okay, guys !!

[pupzlovez]

ambsss I need your help

how do I win the heart of another British boy? lots of tea and crumpets or something?

on anon cuz I'm like. 90% sure he follows you too but idk

thats adorable but y'all im the worst at romance advice, i felt sick asking my boy. but i always say, just be upfront !! its terrifying, yes. You might cry, panic, even throw up(me lol.)but it'll be out ! just be honest, and let him know that theres no pressure or obligation for a specific answer. Yes, you'd be happy to be more. But if that you truly care for him, then you'll know to let him know that you dont mind staying friends. Coming from the receiving end of confessions, it always helped when that the person made it clear to me that i was allowed to reject them, that i was allowed to not reciprocate their feelings because they care about me as a person aswell as a romantic interest. And being on the giving end of a confession, it helped people feel better rejecting Me or asking for more time, patience, etc. i know that this might not help but yeah, i hope the best for you !! im rooting for you guys !! feel free to dm me if that ye wna talk abt it more, or just add an anon tag ! /nf. /lh.

[pupzlovez]

hey !! just a reminder to any boys, especially young ones, you dont have to come out sooner or at all just because that yer in a relationship ! yep ! yer not selfish or a bad boyfriend or unfair to not wanna tell people that yer not straight. yer not a bad person to choose yer comfort over "being openly proud of the relationship". You can be proud to call them yours, and still be closeted. You can talk it out wit yer partner, you can discuss those fears, and worries, and everything else. Can yer partner be upset? Sure ! its normal to feel unsure of someone if that they havent told others about you yet. but can they force you to come out to those people? Of course not !

you are allowed to take yer time. yer not keeping them as yer "dirty secret" or something that yer ashamed of. yer just a queer person trying to manage queer life while in a queer relationship. And that is okay.

you're not bad, my love. you're okay.

[pupzlovez]

not to be rude but out of genuine curiosity, why do you put the word ‘that’ in places it doesn’t make sense to use? (when that, while that, etc)

hello ! i dont find that rude, its alright. ^^

i struggle heavily wit my writing/grammar(?) and it's been pointed out to me before. though i was never corrected on it for years so it feels a bit hard to unlearn it if that makes sense ? i answered this before on my blog but im tired rn so explaining it all feels a bit funky. o..0 but yeah basically its not necessarily on purpose, anon. Im just used to it now and it feels wrong in my brain if that i dont type my way ! /lh.

[pupzlovez]

Hey, do you mind me asking how you pronounce Ambs? I have an idea, but I wanna make sure when I read it I read it correctly

hello ! its am-b-ss or people around me pronounce it as more of a 'z' sound ! some of of my friends wit speech difficulties pronounce it as a silent 'b' however, which i dont mind at all. :) honestly if its easier i go by ambie as a main nickname ! :3c.