*^* i am curious me too, i wanted to ask you : 2,30,16 and 3 i am a bad person KKKKKKKK
You're too kind thank you for asking I hope I can deliver good material, I’m going with Evie and Castiel of course since you are a fellow Castiel Stan. And I messaged you to confirm, but semantics!
2. What was the first moment they knew they were in love with their LI?
(Copy Paste)- For Evie it was during the Deborah debacle during Castiel’s arc, when he didn’t believe her, when he shunned her… it hurt it really hurt, she didn’t understand originally why that was but that night as she cried and thought about it. It hit her… that she was in love with Castiel and that this was what heartache of a broken heart.
But to expand on it I’ll let you know when Castiel knew and hilariously enough it was actually in this arc as well for him.
To be completely honest neither knew they were in love or falling in love originally. Evie was just his friends (Lyndis) cousin after all. They got along well enough and enjoyed each others company even to some degree Castiel felt secure and safe with expressing himself with Evie and he could even tell Evie felt the same. But then Deborah came back, and his mind and emotions were all twisted into knots he didn’t know what to do, what to think, what to feel, then he’d snapped on Evie and the look she gave him... He never really forgave himself for bringing that look onto her face. And when she came back to school hair short and her behavior starting to change somewhat he felt worst. He’d done to her in some ways what Deborah had him, and when he knew the truth by the end it sicken him. He supposes he’s lucky the changes Evie went through weren’t so much for the negative outside his and her’s now more fragile relationship having to be resecured and her becoming more assertive but he still feels some guilt over breaking her heart back then when they had first started to fall in love.
3. When they are having a fight, what is it about and how do they deal with it?
Okay so this actually must be divided into parts between HS and UL due to the changes the two go through as individuals and how they are with one another in said timelines.
Honestly fighting rarely happened between Castiel and Evie back in HS, at least not full on two-sided fights. Evie had always been the more level headed between the two of them and none confrontational, and never was quick to temper, annoy maybe, but actually fight, hardly. It was actually those rare time’s she did get mad and fight back that told Castiel just how much in the wrong he was, as she usually tried to reason with him and understand his point of view on issues, and never tried pushing him past comfort zones she’s didn’t feel he was more than ready to leave. When they did ‘fight’ it was usually Castiel’s jealousy at work, or even his own worry/annoyance at Evie’s overly caring nature for others, especially after the whole Deborah incident with how easily people turned on her. He tries being the realest in their relationship as such and most their conflict usually ends with Castiel either having to walk away and calm down. Evie kindly enough giving him his space, and then coming back together to apologize and talk things out in a more calm manner, which is hard as Castiel sometimes wishes Evie would fight back more on things... Then he has to deal with her Cousin and is reminded why it is Evie actually being angry in rare occasions actually signals to him he’s gone too far.
As of UL things appear to be more or less the same... Though Evie is more willingly to fully express herself now. Castiel is more or less grateful for this, the night he tried to ask her for a one night stand had ended badly, he had known it wouldn’t end well with how Evie was Demi-sexual, she still loved him but she didn’t know or believe he did her. In some ways, he insulted her sexuality, their bond, and her feelings for him by doing so and he knew this after the fact when she left almost in tears as she fled. It wasn’t what he was trying to do he honestly loves and missed her and just... even for one night wanted her back. He knew he crossed a line so he did not blame her when he confronted her later to apologize and better explain himself when she was upset with him. Seeing her like that if anything helped him realize that she had changed and he wants for however long he has to be there. Ups downs and all, jealousy is still bound to happen that's a given, there are still some issues with how his career is the main point of tension that could lead to them breaking, but he’s willing to be the one there for her just as much as she has always been before.
Oh, big time! Though mostly from Castiel. Evie isn’t necessarily jealous in the sense of getting angry or openly possessive hers is more of her own self-consciousness and doubts in her own value and worth, and Castiel knows this and tries to his best to reassure her on it especially with how it was back in HS during Deborah’s first appearance which had caused this issue with how people had originally kept comparing Evie and his Ex till they’d turned on her and then the big reveal. Castiel, on the other hand, is testy with the whole thing, he knows how much of a catch Evie can be to others, and back in HS she had Viktor, Kentin, and Dakota all pinning or after her affection. There was a short time her interacting with Lysander, Nathaniel, and even Armin would somewhat upset him but once they had gotten their respective girls (more like he realized who they were actually interested in, in Lysanders and Nathaniel cases). Evie was, in Castiel’s opinion, to nice and it gave guys the wrong message back in HS, and in UL it seemed to have been occurring again with Hyun. Long distance hadn’t helped with his jealousy back when they broke up, and he knows it’s an issue he has. He supposes he’s lucky Evie is for the most part understanding and does her best to deflect those she honestly has no interest in.
And finally 30. How does that love change as they get older?
It doesn’t. Strange as it may sound. As teens the love they share was very pure and warm, there was this underlining of passion mostly from Castiel due to Evie’s demi-sexuality but as time went on even she began to express the same. Evie’s love was always compassionate and understanding, always willing to accept Castiel and to work with him and Castiel had started to feel the same. When they first broke up it devastated them both though neither knew how to fix it, how to fight for the love they felt for one another and instead tried to move on. By UL that love has far from dwindled and if anything it has made them more open and conscious to one another's flaws as well as their own. They want to do things right this time around, the flame of passion they had as teens still lies beneath the surface of every kiss, every touch, and every caress they share. And as time passes their sure it’ll only grow as they get to rediscover one another and themselves with the other. Whether it be the simplistic of some down almost domestic time with watching a movie at either of their places or the hot passion of carnal dance of sex the two’s love for one another is always ready to adapt and grow alongside themselves.
