Oh hey, I don’t usually do this kind of thing -
but hi hello, I love kink... and I can’t enjoy penetration.
I’ve had what I think is vaginismus (pain and reflexive painful tightness of the vagina when penetrated) for as long as I can remember. My diagnosis of fibromyalgia - a chronic nerve pain disorder - a few years ago made even more sense. We all know there are plenty of nerves down there!
So, if you’re like me and you’re worried that being unable to have penetrative sex somehow makes you less of a kinkster?
I promise you it doesn’t. There are so many ways to enjoy kink that don’t depend upon being penetrated. And if someone mocks you for it, they are not worth your time.
Enjoy kink however you like. There’s no judgement here!













