Do I have the right to be upset?
So I found out a really good friend of mine, engaged friend, has already picked her bridesmaids. I have known her since middle school and we became really close during high school and keep in touch now. I am graduated from college (I went away for college she stayed) and I am home for good now. When we got a chance to hang out this summer I thought she was finally going to ask me to be a bridesmaid, I have known she asked other friends and her sister already during the beginning of the year. She didn’t ask me to be a bridesmaid, she asked me to be the “godmother of the bouquet” (its a Latinx wedding).I didn’t say yes or no to this role in the wedding I just said thank you.
When she was falling for this guy she always called me and asked what she should do, she told me I was one of the first to know about their engagement and I get asked to give her a bouquet during the wedding?! I really thought we were close and even thought “maybe she didn’t ask me because I was away in school” but should that really be an excuse not to have a friend be your bridesmaid? What gets me more is that one of her bridesmaids is someone she has know for about two years, I’ve known her for 10! The amount of time knowing someone doesn’t matter but I was there for her in this budding romance and I get reduced to a grown flower girl for her big day. :(