My roommate and I had a meaningful conversation last night where she pointed out that I am way too comfortable with AndyMoto "It's like yall have been dating for 6 months already. It's barely been a month"
and it's got me thinking.
I like having him around, but (and you can go back and read my posts about him, lol) he gets under my skin. And, I hate admitting this, but we've never been on an actual date. What's wrong with this picture?!
So I think a talk is coming. The "I like you a lot, but I think we are better off as friends. I don't think you are ready for a girlfriend/relationship/whatever this is."
I have never been the one to have this talk. I always am on the receiving end. Deep breaths, deep breaths.
He's gone somewhat AWOL again so I don't know when it'll happen.
I had a date with a (possibly) new Andy Monday night. I met him at a Turkish restaurant, so authentic that you sit on the floor...(and I'm PMSing so my back was KILLING me the next day) He ordered a bottle of wine and we were there for almost 3 hours, and I was a little upset when he asked for the check. It flew by.
Check, check, check. I'm going to call him AndyBurningMan because he got super animated talking about the Burning Man Festival? It's this crazy art festival where everyone has to participate in the art itself-no voyeurism allowed. Needless to say, I was beyond impressed that he knew something cultural I didn't know about. I'm usually the expert in the conversation (ha!)
Anyway. We left and he hugged me...didn't offer to walk me to my car (little tiny baby strike) and I was a little confused.
He sent me a text when he got home (I'm guessing) and said he had a great time and wanted to hang out again. (!!)
Meeting AndyFob for drinks tomorrow night after dinner with a girlfriend.
I'm not sure I can manage 3, so Moto might officially be on the outs.