On Adaine, asexuality, aromanticism, trauma, and how much I love Siobhan Thompson
Siobhan recently answered my question on Adaine being ace/aro on the fireside chat stream, and boy do I have emotions and a lot of things to say.
I had my worst traumatic experiences when I was fifteen. They involved school and many panic attacks. I am also on the asexual and aromantic spectrums, so yeah, Siobhan’s answer means a lot to me. Adaine’s story surrounding anxiety has always hit really close to home for me, and hearing a well thought out acknowledgment of the way mental illness and trauma can affect orientations almost sent me bawling. So few people ever mention asexuality, let alone aromanticism in storytelling. Doing both in the same breath as talking about trauma is just wonderful beyond words.
I’m aspec, and while I love it, if my labels change one day, that’s alright with me. If Adaine considers herself aspec, that’s amazing and that representation matters. It’s also okay if her labels change as she grows older, because knowing that she had that journey is representation too.
I’ve followed Siobhan since her time running Anglophenia (my favorite video is the accents one) and the more I’ve seen of her, the more I admire her. As a writer, as an actor, as a roleplayer, and as a person, she continues to astound and inspire me with her talent and thoughtfulness.
I’m MistyPower, a handle that was previously chosen at random, but I feel like redefining it now. It’s now in honor of one of Siobhan’s other wonderful characters, Misty Moore.
I don’t know if Siobhan will ever see this, but I was quite serious when I said I love you in the chat. A good friend told me to remember that I am resilient as hell, and maybe it’s the projection, but I hope Adaine recognizes that quality in themselves too. Thank you for everything.















