Newcomer anon again from some days ago (I promise I won’t spam your inbox this is the only other thing I wanted to say lol)
I find it kind of funny that I actually used to ship narilamb but then I got into some more unpopular Lamb ships and went actually no I think this is better. Guy who has only ever eaten white bread realises there is other food out there /j
Idk I don’t really have any particular gripes with nrlmb or anything, it’s just so prevalent (and most content of it kind of features the same dynamic between the two) that it got boring for me eventually. There’re other characters and potential ship dynamics that are more under-explored (and to me more interesting than default narilamb) and I enjoy thinking about those more. Everything about nrlmb has already been considered but I am out here pioneering new ground with my rarepairs /j
Hell, there is potential for other non-romantic dynamics between the Lamb and Nari that are under-explored!! I want to see more of that too!! Here I was gonna share my own version of their dynamic but the ask got way too long so I think I’ll just end it here
It’s always good to hear from someone who used to ship them! I genuinely appreciate the perspective they can bring to me so I loved reading this! I’m always gonna be a huge goatlamb fan bc I’ve never not played this game on co-op mode with my partner (soon to be fiancé ♡) and now it just feels so unnatural to play it alone.
(I like to imagine that’s how Goat would feel about the whole thing. What’s the point of having power and leading my own cult alone when my divine counterpart isn’t even there??)
I also liked Narinder as he was, before he was a follower, in the same way that I enjoy a good Disney villain and I love to hate him so I just can’t really ship him with anyone except like the concept of villainy lol.
On the other hand, I totally see where Narilamb holds a kind of general appeal to people and, therefore, why the devs push it the front of their marketing. It’s annoying but when you’re a small game dev company you have to capitalize on your strongest betting horse.
My issue is that it’s too general- the exact kind of Trojan horse that makes money and gets attention. Their marketing strategy has consistently leaned on cheekily using his image and- while I’ve seen it work and can’t blame them- it’s so obviously a play for online attention and it gets old.
I also tire easily of the “sunshine x grumpy” dynamic. While I think it can be charming in theory, in execution it often doesn’t let characters grow out of the neat boxes it places them into. The “sunshine” character is doomed to be reduced down to a useless ditz (notice how often this role is filled by a woman and you’ll have all new reasons to be annoyed) and the grumpy character’s ability to be autonomous and draw boundaries is deliberately withheld from them in the name of “taming the shrew”- so to speak (god forbid the grumpy character be a man of color, a demographic that already has to be constantly aware of how ‘approachable’ they must appear to others for fear of punishment).
Putting the Lamb and Narinder into these roles is tantamount to completely defanging them:
The Lamb can no longer be a deceptively cute warlord and iron-fisted cult leader with vengeance in their heart who must choose between completely destroying their followers’ sense of individuality and independence the way the other gods seem to be driven to do at some point or another or obeying some moral principles no matter what- even if that means creating a mere illusion of freedom that gives both the Lamb and the followers a sort of tenuous peace.
Narinder can no longer be a person forever marked with the selfishness and evil he fell into- even if he once had selfless reasons. He was a god of death driven insane by an isolating and cruel imprisonment. Treating him as someone who’s bad attitude simply needs to be curbed misses the point: that he had been broken into a self-serving and violent coward by the treacherous designs set against him- that he is the exact person the Lamb risks becoming for every selfish choice they make in running their cult. Even if he had been kind in the past, he grew to fully believe that the mortals under his control were tools for his use and that their purpose was to act as such.
The Lamb and Narinder are foils, yes, but not in a kind or redemptive way in which they might learn how to be better from the other. Narinders existence serves as a warning to the player of what can happen if we treat the position of power over others as the natural state of things.
And I, for one, find it a little annoying when that dire warning is constantly being dressed up in a maid outfit and his dick and balls are used to sell game copies and merch.
Also we need more explorations of the other characters in the game!!! I think the devs did a great job with the other bishops and with purgatory and Woolhaven is another sign that they know what they’re doing with their story so I’m hoping we will see more relationship dynamics being explored and I for one would love to see more texture to Lamb’s relationship to Narinder. Even if they want to keep pushing Narilamb I’d honestly rather they use that opportunity to make him a character worth caring about!! I’d eat (some of) my words if they would just give me a good reason to like him. That apology he gave was written like shit and was all over the place in terms of characterization so he’s falling way behind the rest of the cast in terms of strong character writing!!! Pleeeeease pray we get something good in the future that makes him less of a useless dish rag.
In the meantime I’m open to other kinds of relationships those two might have! If you have the time and energy and want to share I’d be open to hearing about your (and other peoples) ideas for that!