💖🏨 How Anticarers purity culture silences anyone they don't agree with or understand in the SparkleCare Fandom
The SparkleCare Hospital universe was always meant to explore healing, trauma, and imperfection through dark and disturbing topics. It is meant to up raw emotions. It was always a way for us to learn to enjoy the characters, their interactions, the environment, the storyline, all of it. The characters are so well written that y'all wanna steal them.
《 INFACT many of you technically have, but that's neither here nor there. 》
The Fandom fractured when some "fan" released someone coping with fiction in private, and it snowballed from there. More issues arise upon both sides' doorsteps.
The anticarers, centered around purity, safety, and moral cleanliness. (Lacking the comprehension that, indeed, they are less moral than they realize. They have been bullying a lot of neurodivergent individuals. I have experienced this first hand. ) They claim to be not ablist, but prove that they are with their actions.
The freakycarers, those who actually heard people out instead of assuming how people are. Who asked questions that you would be too scared to.
Why? Cuz yall assume the worst always. Yall think fiction = reality. And maybe for you. That's half true, but it's not the full truth. Proshippers know the difference between fiction and reality, but antis dont because they are always the ones who assume fiction is gonna make someone attack someone. Instead of realizing its impulse control or mental health that causes the attack, not fiction. A gun, on its own, doesn't kill people. Bullets, on their own, don't kill people. People loading guns, with the safety off kill people. So they blame the guns and bullets while we try to show that the person kills, not the weapons, and they just never understand how reality works. They always assume with half information.
They want the Fandom to be child-safe, sanitized. (Valid) but the comic isn't inherently that either... so hypocrisy again...
Freakycarers want space to process heavy themes through fiction to exorcise pain safely through story and art to heal or explore fiction.
The tragedy is that both seek comfort—just in opposite ways. When misunderstanding grows, the gap between protection and policing shrinks fast.
How authoritarian patterns emerge, when fear of harm becomes fear of difference, authoritarian habits creep in:
• Gatekeeping: deciding who is a “real” fan.
《Anticarers say, "oh, you aren't gonna be vitriolic because we disagree on how a comic artist of comic we both read copes with FICTION? F--- off》
• Thought policing: equating dark fiction with endorsement of harm. Just because someone CONSUMES or CREATES a type of content, it doesn't mean they endorse it. It could be for coping!!! Or just creativity!! You couldn't handle being in the head of your favorite comic creators ever.
• Public shaming: callouts that act like digital show trials. They attack without research. They assume the worst based upon what they have experienced rather than actual comprehension.
• DARVO tactics: denying cruelty (“we’re just keeping the fandom safe”), attacking dissenters, then claiming victimhood when boundaries are questioned. Ostracize people they aren't agreeing with them. Just BLOCK US!!! It's that simple :)
And you aren't better than anyone else, just because you cope differently than another victim. You are just ablist towards other victims. Say you hate victims without saying you hate victims!!! You aren't better than anyone else. You arent a god you dont have a god complex so fuck off. You arent better than thou. We are all humans with different thoughts and emotions. Thoughts arent actions. And not all thoughts had by a person are endorsed by said person EITHER.
Anticarer purity thinking says: *“If it hurts to see, it must be wrong.”*
Freakycarer trauma logic says: *“If it hurts to make, maybe it needs to exist.”*
Neither is inherently evil—but when the first tries to erase the second, survivors lose the ability to tell their own stories and heal. Anticarers tend to cause more trauma to Freakycarers. Imagine being a CSA victim being told how to cope with your CSA by people who haven't live your life. People who assume the worst, always.
Pro, in pro ship, means "in support of" not "problematic", FYI. since, you know, yall assume.
Freakycarer artists often lock blogs, delete years of work, or vanish entirely, due to extreme harassment over fictional content. Not even real children, just fiction!! Many are queer, neurodivergent, or survivors using fiction to unpack reality and heal properly.
When anticarers shame them for being “too weird,” “too graphic,” or “too unstable,” that isn’t protection—it’s **ableism** dressed as morality. The same way Trump lovers don't see his wrong doings, is the same way y'all don't see your own.
Ableism shows up when:
• neurodivergent communication styles are labeled “aggressive” or “manipulative,”
• triggers or hyperfixations are mocked as “excuses,”
• tone, spelling, or emotional intensity are judged as moral failings,
• and people are told they’re “mentally ill” for the kind of art they make.
This policing ignores that many freakycarers are literally creating to **cope**—using art the way therapy uses journaling. Calling that “sick” or “dangerous” tells disabled people that their healing mechanisms are invalid. Oppression doesn’t need uniforms or laws—just people convinced that cruelty equals care. Y'all DEHUMANIZE and DARVO real victims.
Real care asks questions, instead of issuing verdicts after automatically assuming the worst.
• Use **tags and filters**, not harassment.
• **Curate your own feed** instead of policing others’.
• Offer **education, not humiliation**.
• Build **opt-in spaces** for heavy art and clear boundaries for those who don’t want it.
Compassion works better than censorship because it recognizes that everyone heals differently. You don't wanna be associated with ablist bigots that Trumpers are. USE YOUR BRAIN, dont assume, USE CRITIAL THINKING!!!
Anticarers loses that message when care turns authoritarian. So no matter who you are, remember:
✨ Care is only real when it’s kind. ✨
Let people process. Let people imagine. Let people heal.
See you! BABYMETAL is my fave band.