antis: if you write/draw/explore unhealthy content you basically deserve to die
also antis: fans of shit like GOT
I'm not bashing GOT, I'm just pointing out the hypocrisy. Sure, we'll consume media where there's tons of canon incest but shame fic writers who make no money for writing incest in fiction, no matter how it's portrayed.
I've already talked about how wild the age gap hypocrisy is in the FMA fandom. Sure going to watch a media where Trisha is depicted as having known Hohenheim as a child and ignore the 400 year age gap. Or that Dante canonly tells Ed she planned to murder Rose and fuck him in his friend's corpse. You go ahead and shame the RoyEds and GreedLings or whatever.
There's plenty more examples but I think age gap and incest are the big ones in my fandom.
If nobody ever wrote anything problematic we would lose stories, TV, movies. Not only because everyone's concept of problematic is different (for you it's age gap, for homophobes it's same sex relationships etc.) but because without problematic content and characters we'd quickly run out of villians to narrate around.
Exploring unhealthy dynamics in fiction doesn't necessarily mean you support it.