#anxiousace

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anxiousace // starter. 

                 “ ASASHI-SAN. be brutally honest ---- or lie, i don’t really care ---- but i look                        cute with my hair pinned back like this, right ?? i’m thinking about wearing it like                        this 24/7. “

[dyedinthesettingsun-blog]

anxiousace

lxbero

He's supposed to be fishing, but being near the water is relaxing him so much that he's starting to fall asleep.                                                         -- 🔆

[the-rolling-libero]

"I should’ve been in bed two hours ago."

Typical Asahi, Nishinoya thought as he watched their ace with narrowed eyes. Barely one AM and the third year was already just about falling asleep on his feet, which by itself was a miracle. The fact that they’d gotten him to down not one but two glasses of champagne was like the second coming. "If you were boring, sure. But you’re a new Asahi. You’re party Asahi. New year, new you, right?" 

[kyokenchan-a]

anxiousace

G-Geez… He looks scarier than Tanaka… “Be-because… This isn’t… Where you should be?”What purpose would he have at Karasuno after all? There was no practice match that he was aware of. “Besides… You’re scaring people…” Excluding himself, the Aoba Jousai player had scared off several other students on sports clubs. Asahi only confronted the boy because he had recognized him from Aoba Jousai’s volleyball team.

    "Do you think I'm stupid?" Kyoutani growled, he knew very well this was not his school, but he was sent here to check on things. ...Especially on theTobio-chan, who in his opinion could jump in a river. Also, wasn't this person the ace? Why was he so nervous? Such a person should not carry the name ace if they trembled in the presence of rival school players.     "Where's your setter?" Kyoken ignored the people scaring part.

[defensivespecialist]

hanaxmi

megane-blocker

silversetter

anxiousace

                  "I'm looking to get some extra practice in.  Does anyone wanna join me?" ✯

[cunningcatcaptain]

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"You're that Karasuno guy that little shrimp with the spiked up hair bosses around, aren't ya'? You need to pick him up like a little kid and show him whose boss."

[thegrandgarbageking]

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"You know ponytails are for girls right, Oji-San? Or are you one of those bearded ladies that Iwa-chan told me works in...I think he called them carmavils?"

[asexualadvice]

My friends have been trying to set me up for years with no success. I've liked the guys okay, but then they kiss me and I have a panic attack. Mostly because I fear they will eventually want more. They think I'm shy, but I've only recently (1/4A)

discovered that I'm actually asexual. I've been talking to the latest guy for a few months and it's all been great but now he wants to meet up tomorrow while he's in state! I have no problem telling him, but maybe you have some tips on how to (2/4A)

do it tactfully? I'm pretty sure I'd just say "I'm not sexually attracted to you and I never will be" and "don't touch me even casually unless you ask first" and that doesn't seem very polite... I do like him romantically, but I feel like I (3/4A)

might hurt his feelings and/or drive him away with my bluntness. Even if I didn't like him romantically I wouldn't want that, but I feel like either way I'm screwed... (4/4A) AnxiousAce

First, deep breath. It's going to be okay. 

Some more tactful ways to start might be "Hey, so I like you romantically, but before we go too much farther, I'd really like to talk about what we're both looking for and what our boundaries are, if you're up for that." (If he's not up for that, that's a little worrying - but I'd check and see if he'd rather talk about that privately than in a public setting.) Then you talk about what you're interested in, how you feel, and what your boundaries are, and he talks about the same, and you see how things go. If you preface it with something like that, then a statement like "I'm not okay with casual touches - I really need you to ask me if it's okay every time first" doesn't seem so blunt and harsh. 

Hey, good luck acenon!

-Kiowa