KEEP IT INSIDE THE FUCKING BOX FOR THE EVERLOVING FUCK.
I've seen many times how things go absolutely wrong when someone is stupid enough (or careless enough) to open the Pandora Box. There's a reason YOU ARE NOT SUPPOSED TO OPEN IT. JESUS.
Whenever someone aknowledges that big ass neon pink shiny elephant, things quickly and quite easily go to hell. You gotta remember that these are real people and not only characters on a fic. You know, it is as if these kind of fics are called Real People Fics (RPF). Who would say so! They can feel unconfortable or attacked or as if their privacy was blatanly violated. They have feelings, just like everyone else does.
Keep things where they belong. You don't fucking put your dirty underwear on the microwave, do you? (I really hope you don't) THEN DON'T OPEN THE CAN OF WORMS FOR EVERYONE TO SEE!
PD. If Max or. Checo end up being asked anything related to ao3 or the Chestappen thing, I'll quit....
....from life. or maybe just fanfic life. let's not be that dramatic.