#apainintheass

[inthemiddleofmymidnight]

My mom was telling something to my brother and she turned to me and asked “what’s that thing called in twilight when Jacob like *weird gesture with hands* gets attached to the ugly ass baby”

it’s called a restraining order

[twilightisgaynow]

I need a serious talk with the anon of the period again cause like, if he’s also sort of in love with Edwards balls, how’s that go cause they weren’t bros, I’m sure as hell Edward virgin mcgee wouldn’t have jerked off ever, not even know the concept. So maybe in the tent being close to him was like HMMM RESUMEE BALLS

this ask is a hate crime

[edwardsvirginity]

Imagine a movie of solely Carlesme

HONESTLY THAT IS THE MOVIE WE DESERVE @ HOLLYWOOD GIVE IT TO US

[backwardsflow]

Hi so my girlfriend is trans and she’s in the closet, is there something I can do, without making her uncomfortable that could reassure her she’s a girl whenever she feels beat down?

ah geez, i’m not an authority or anything. being closeted sucks, and in my case it came with a ton of paranoia that people were going to find me out before i was ready. so i mean, subtle things in public and explicit things in private or in text.

there’s some really cute affectionate things that also work for validation, like playing with her hair (regardless of length!) or kissing the back of her hand. it might be silly, but a lot of us do love being treated like princesses. girly pet names are also great for this.

explicit validation also works. you can remind her that you love her for herself, and that her true self is worth loving, worthy of love, even when she doesn’t get love from other places.

if gift-giving is in the realm of possibility, there’s a lot of great options for subtle things to help her feel feminine day-to-day. things like clear nail polish and fancy soap/shampoo are great and very under-the-rader. if she’s comfortable / able to wear jewelry, bracelets or necklaces are good. (if she’s anxious about people asking about it, “my partner gave it to me” is a perfectly good explanation for most people). my friends in high school gave me a bag of dollar-store makeup while i was closeted. i didn’t wear any of it until after graduation, but it still meant a lot to me. i still keep them around years later.

but really, here‘s the important part: you know her. it may take time to learn what works and what doesn’t, what she likes, what will work for her situation, etc. she may not even know herself what works just yet, i know i didn’t when i was in the closet. you’re going to experiment and feel things out, and it doesn’t matter if you try a bunch of things that don’t fit because she’ll know you’re doing your best. be there for her as best as you can. she will feel the effort and love you give her, and that’ll probably be more reassuring than any individual act.

[littlestpersimmon]

Could you give a tutorial on like backgrounds? I’m trying to start making original pieces and I really like your art a lot, the way you do stuff is really cool and I want to start selling art so I can save up for testosterone (but despite money reasons, I would really like to improve my art)

I can try,, but it might take a while because I’m super busy and also lazy but I’ll definitely try

[meyhew]

This teen choice awards I wanna vomit cause what the actual fuck is going on??? THAT CALIFORNIA GIRL PRESENTATION??? What the fuck??? I’m so sorry Louis you gotta see all that

bro he zayned outta there so fast.... biggest mood of today

[transconverts]

How do you deal with being trans man and having to wear a skirt/ long dress? I can barely do it but I’m not fully out to the community and I gotta do it but I feel so fake and bad like I’m not being fully me

<3 I’m sorry you’re going through that. 

Would wearing pants underneath help a little bit so you’re not as focused on the skirt?

Any other suggestions, folks?

[achilleanprincess]

My boyfriends bday is soon and idk what to give him help (ldr remember me) aaaaaaa I don’t wanna to classic drawing cause I do that every single time and I was thinking a vine compilation of vines and tiktoks that have his energy or smh OR IDK AAAAAAA

I think the vine/tiktok collection is an excellent idea! a playlist of songs that make you think of him would also b super cute!