#apanon

[varsex-pride]

Hi hello! I was wondering if there's a term for being apathetic about your sex characteristics? I've been searching for a while; I've been using apagenital for a awhile but I realize it's all of my sex characteristics that I am apathetic towards, not my genitalia. If you could think of anything that would be great <3

I think we once mentioned apasex/apadic, but it's not a concrete term yet. apanox seems more unique, based on these. apamorphous, based on abromorphous.

[autumn-foxfire]

always proud to be a pokemon uwu. I'm really glad you are doing better now and that you have managed to get out of toxic environment and toxic mindset and i hope being in this fandom isnt wearing you down too much i know how stressful fandoms can be in you fall into the wrong group. Sends positive vibes~~ sorry this got so personal jbkjbj

Hmmm, would you be an Audino or a Chansey

And same to you, apanon!

Also, don’t worry, I’ve learned when I’ve needed to take a step back from the BNHA fandom when it gets too much. I’ve got a pretty supportive network of mutuals and anons though who help me through the hard times too.

(And don’t worry, I’ve been pretty open about my life on this blog XD I don’t mind it getting a little personal!)

<3 You’re too kind apanon! I hope positive vibes got your way too!

[autumn-foxfire]

Apanon i love that lmaoAnd do some people really think its conceited to make a list of your good qualities?? Self-love is so important and your brain really internalizes everything you tell it. Like this is coming from someone who spent a year making the ‘haha wish I was dead’ jokes and who’s mental state really took a hit until I Stopped Doing That. So really talking yourself up is one of the simplest things you can do for your mental health.

It was an attitude I was around when I was growing up sadly (say you think you’re good at something and you get looked down upon because your showing off :/ It wasn’t a fun atmosphere to say the least, especially when the traits you were proud of kept getting mocked).

I wouldn’t be surprised if it’s something in other places too.

And yeah, for me changing how I viewed myself really helped me get to a better mental place (and well taking anti-depressants but they don’t just work on there own). You don’t realize how much of the bad things you have internalized until you do and how unhealthy it is for you until you make an active change.

Oh, and exercise. It’s so strange but taking care of your body really does help.